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I've been doing the newbie mission every single day on my way to the gym and to classes. It's been 2-3 weeks and I finally have the confidence to say 'HELLO' to every single woman I pass.
When the person doesn't respond, I laugh and go on about my day. When I first started out, if the person ignored me, I would feel offended. Now, I treat it like a game, it's so easy now!! Regardless of the response, I smile and feel good on the inside. I'm actually doing something to alleviate my social anxiety.

I'm about to take this to the next level, by actually starting some small talk. I'll post updates later!!!

Thank you to whoever made this thread!

After going sarging for the first time at a nightclub last month, I realized that my approach anxiety was fuckin debilitating and had to do something about it. I also realized that during night game, women are extremely hostile. In the daytime, people are more friendly and generous, so I'm sticking to daygame for now.

I'm upping the stakes tomorrow, and I will post in the coming weeks about it. [/u]
nice work! GJ getting over any AA

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i think i can improve by not only greeting, but by smiling and nodding at them


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I just want to say a huge thanks to the thread maker. This mission is great for anyone with social anxiety and approach anxiety.

Reading it you think its too easy. It took me so many attempts to just say hello to one woman.

Yesterday I finally did it and it felt great. Bare in mind it took me all day but I finally managed it on my way home. She didn't reply but she did smile back.

With my new found confidence I even shouted at the hot woman next to me at the traffic lights to tell her that her petrol cap was still open. I never would have done that before. :D


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Ok so i didnt do so well. I went to a mall with a friend to grap some job applications and i thought "hey i groomed myself well, im dressed nice, i should give the newbie mission a shot".

I walked around the mall and i spotted so many good looking girls, some where even in groups, I couldnt do it :(

I have confidence i know it. At the end of the day i said hello to two girls as they walked right past me while i was leaving the mall, they totally ignored me, but i know they heard me for sure, even tho i was ignored it felt good :D

Speaking of which there was this one girl i saw in one of the stores who was hot as fuck probably an HB9, at least for me..anyways i saw her walking around man and she was ALONE just slowly walking through the store looking at clothes...I should have approached, i even thought of a good line while i was looking at her (she had no idea i existed by the way)....the line was "why are you shopping here? You already look good"

idk if that would have worked, and i guess im stupid for not testing it. should have at least said hi :(


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I just went out tonight and literally approached everyone and I was ignored except by street husrlers. Now I'm sitting in cathouse at the luxor and I feel like giving up! I was calm and as relaxed as you can get at the las Vegas strip. What now? After nothing but rejection I now just want to get a hooker.


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Tried the Newbie Mission Last week and here's my progress

Last Saturday go to a mall to meet up with my friends to attend an activity, ride a PUV, on my way to the mall an HB5 stopped the van where i am with and sits besides me, i was looking at her for an EC but ended up failing to say hi to her because she is just to focus on something else. and then i arrived at the mall and as i walk through the elevator i saw an HB7 korean and smiled at her and said hi, she smiled back at me and said hi as well as we wait for the elevator. when the elevator started to open we hopped in and a few korean group of youths are with us being to noisy and speaking their own language. she looks at me again and i looked at her smiling with slight funny faces because i was surrounded by the noisy korean groups who are in the elevator. after the korean group left i tease her if she knows how to speak their language because i told her that i really could not understand what they are saying and she said a little and is smiling as we left and go on our separate ways. doesn't have a plan on number closing this one.

Then Sunday came, i go to the mall again as i come across the street there is an HB carrying a dog, i said hi to her and she said hi to me as well and i told her that her dog is kinda cute, and she says thank you.

after that i stopped another PUV to go to the mall and i think i am quite lucky because there is an HB7 who is in front of me. i assess her if she is approachable and funny thing is she is giving me IOI and im just smiling at the back thinking of stuff's to say after we get out of the PUV, i notice two IOI's she is signaling one is she is looking back at me and two she is playing with her hair, so even though AA is starting to kick in my chest i still build my confidence and i really wanted to approach this HB7, in my mind even the famous PUA Mystery have a hard time too before he became a master of this stuff so why not try? thanks to him and Style because im reading their books right now it gave me ideas on how to approach this HB7, then after we got out of the PUV we go to the mall, i am still hesitant on approaching her because AA is kicking in badly so i walk immediately and browse some books in a book shelf while hiding away from her to assess her, and what great luck she is giving another IOI ! This is it! I must not be hesitant, even in the back of my mind asking my self should I or should I not? then i decided that it is always be should! so i approach her with a smile and says Hi and what did get in return ? she smiled at me and said hi as well ! then i started to open up with a conversation :

Me : Hey your bag is kinda cute ! (Smiling)
HB : Thank you ! (Giggles)
Me : I think I saw that kind of bag in Quiapo.
(Quiapo - Is a marketplace in Phil. where in you can buy cheap stuffs. So I neg her even though I know that the bag is a branded Adidas LOL!)
HB : no i bought it in a mall !
Me : Oh i see in a mall then. So can i ask you a question? I would not take so much of your time cause i need to go somewhere and see my family.
HB : I am just waiting for someone, what is it?
Me : When was the last time you kissed someone? (It just popped in my head lol and good thing I was able to back it up)
HB : Why ? (Giggles)
Me : Because yesterday I kissed my Mom and today I'm gonna kiss my Dad.
HB : My Mom! Yesterday as well. (Giggles)
Me : Dont forget to kiss your dad because today is Dad's day. Ok?
HB : (Giggles)
Me : So i have to go now, so what is your name?
HB : My name is, and you are?
Me : Nice to meet you, until we meet again ! Bye.

The result ended up good and it boosted my confidence but, i forgot that when a HB gives her name to you it is another IOI, so frustated wanted to go back to number close but because of AA i was not able to get it. darn i realize that i needed to be more relax and comfortable when starting a conversation so that i could think and lead with ease.

Constructive criticism and advice is very much welcome!

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I tried the mission when I went to get the new Iphone. It failed pretty much the entire time I was in the line. Either i would get to nervous or the guy in front of me would start talking too and then I got pushed to the backround.

Then when I went to the foodcourt and saw to girls and decided to try and say hi. When I got there a gay guy walks up and starts talking to them. I just decided it was a sign from above and went to get in line. As I'm waiting the girls got behind me and I heard one of them say she was going to punch the guy. I, in an impulsive reaction, said I didn't think a pretty girl would say something like that. She went on to say that the guy was making Lesbian jokes to her and her friend. I kinda got nervous after that and just said bye payed for my food and left.

I think what I did wrong though was not use the opening I gave myself and I ignored her friend who was paying more attenion to me than she was.


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I tried the mission when I went to get the new Iphone. It failed pretty much the entire time I was in the line. Either i would get to nervous or the guy in front of me would start talking too and then I got pushed to the backround.

Then when I went to the foodcourt and saw to girls and decided to try and say hi. When I got there a gay guy walks up and starts talking to them. I just decided it was a sign from above and went to get in line. As I'm waiting the girls got behind me and I heard one of them say she was going to punch the guy. I, in an impulsive reaction, said I didn't think a pretty girl would say something like that. She went on to say that the guy was making Lesbian jokes to her and her friend. I kinda got nervous after that and just said bye payed for my food and left.

I think what I did wrong though was not use the opening I gave myself and I ignored her friend who was paying more attenion to me than she was.

lol all you're supposed to do is say hi then walk away or whatever. The only thing you have to do is succeed with saying "Hi." You can't fail.

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i volunteer in the hospital so i lately have gotten use to striking up random conversations. Today I asked a lady in the elevator, how is your day?....

she looked at me in awe and said "good, really good. how bout you?".....than as we were leaving she said "thanks for asking" in a real sincere and nice way


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So i tried this for the first time but since i live in vegas i went to a casino instead of a mall. The SPAM was way more hectic and but i kind of had a head start since my job already consists of talking to people and trying to convince them to buy stuff. i think out of 50 women i approached and said hi too ( i was there for a while ) only about 3 ignored me and when i asked for ones opinion she came right back to me and asked for mine . after that was all said and done i got went to go pick up some ice cream and the cashier asked me why i was walking around saying hi to all the women so i told her because she wasnt paying attention to me, she laughed and came and sat down with me when she got a break introduced herself ... i got a number close ... man i love the randomness of vegas

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I just went out tonight and literally approached everyone and I was ignored except by street husrlers. Now I'm sitting in cathouse at the luxor and I feel like giving up! I was calm and as relaxed as you can get at the las Vegas strip. What now? After nothing but rejection I now just want to get a hooker.
When you come to Vegas man you have to understand that the strip is just basically a walkway from casino to casino try what i did man and walk into a mall. i know there's the forum shops at Ceaser's palace the miracle mile at planet Hollywood and the fashion show mall just to name a few. When you go to places like that people won't ignore you or just think you're a street hustler you didn't fail man you were just out of the elements on this one don't worry. trust me man when it comes to Vegas streetwise i know my city.

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Without a. . . legal drivers license I can't drive to the mall and can't fully fulfill that mission but I'm doing what I can and basically approaching women every chance I can and it's been fine, I'm already making progress, using the forum in conjunction with "The Game" I'm able to identify my hitching points which at this point is 1. number closing, I get the 101s I know it's just a question away I just haven't forced myself to indirectly bring it up. 2. and this is primarily for women I completely don't know I just run out of things to talk about so I'll just have to peruse the forums to figure that one out.


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So there is mine,

Before yesterday i went to the mall, well groomed, to try the newbie mission, result....major fail, i felt like a stalker.

BUT, one word is on my mind, PERSISTENCE!

So yesterday i went with the dogs outs, not expecially groomed, and it was so easy,
i started greeting all people who pass by my and made eye contact, men or women! After 2/3 people its youll get the feeling ;).

My advice, if your having problems doing it the 1st time:

- Go out with a goal (mine was walking the dogs, it can be going to your work, going shoping, meeting friends, etc) , it will put much less pressure on you, that youll sucess for sure.

- Greet both men and women, young and old, alone and in group, walking and standing. Youll not feel weird, stalker alike, if you do it this way.


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So although i didnt feel i had a problem with confidence or AA i felt it was important to try this mission (please note im not being arrogant i just felt prior to this mission that it had never been a problem in the past).

Location: My UNI campus
Time Lunch time (12pm - 1pm)

So I chose the place because of it's high female volume and also because there are plenty of AMOG's about to make my life a little more interesting.

I dont know what happened but for the first time in my life i got AA. Is that because for the first time in my life i was aware that people suffered from it?! Anyways the first 20 mins was spent sat there smoking lucky stikes with my balls in my mouth. Not good.
I was about to call it when i tripped on a step and a girl came over to see if i was ok it was at this point i remembered that the AA i was having before was ridiculous (i mean come on it's just another human being).
The next 20 mins was a rather mad dash around campus aproaching as many women as possible. It was going well. I was getting a bit unstuck once i had approached and openned but it was going well. High on the relative success i was having i decided to try and up my game. This ment spending the next 20 mins try to approach groups. I think i may have got a bit ahead of myself at this point but what the hell it was fun and was part of the learning experience.
Overall i was pretty happy with the experience but think i will "rinse and repeat" a few times over the next couple of weeks.
For the chap who made the mission i just want to say thanks. Had a bloody good time and already looking forward to the next excursion.
Incidentally does anyone have any tips as i am winging for a friend in a weeks time and i dont want to look like a afc when im doing it.

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