As im new here - im hoping one of you guys could help.

A girl I work with has asked me to make a cd for her cos well she is interested in my kind of music - its mainly arabic music. I like her alot and just wanna fuck her but she has a boyfriend (she aint happy with him as far as i can tell from what she has told me)

Is this friends zone territory? or could I use this to my advantage by either saying yes and not making it (push pull I think) or making the CD and whenever she listens she could think of me? some kind of psychological thing.

You could just make her a CD and then game her whenever you see her. That should work.

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Why dont you invite her around to yours so she can help pick out the songs she want. At least that way you get to build up some comfort from a different place other than work. Depending on how close you are with her already I wouldnt make the CD

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Well we are pretty close as in we been to drinks few times but not been close friends.

She declared she liked me I reciprocated and from there I did have an element of oneitis. I liked her before I told her and she told me. She has a boyfriend by the way as mentioned.

Basically we have been arguing a bit at the moment and acting in a bipolar manner - one minute we are fine next we are not.

Anyways I dont think ill do it but I will reply to her saying "maybe, if you're lucky" tease her a bit.

Have sex with her first.

if she ignores you, bipolar, then she doesnt deserve the cd. you could give it as a reward for good conduct lol
i think she testing you, she can listen on youtube or download it herself, just like any of your friend would do. aint none of your boys asking you to burn a cd!

but having sex first is a good idea too

It's not only a good idea.

If he doesn't have sex with her first then he's fucked, and not in the good way.

Thanks for the responses

I wish I could fuck her.

Had a chat yesterday and although she said that I didnt acknowledge that she has a boyfriend she also says that "there is still no denying that I know how to make her smile" and lets be mates.

She hasnt denied that she wants me cos she does and she has also said that she really likes me.

i like her too but she has a boyfriend.

I wont make the CD and i think her and I keep going round in circles so the best thing i think would be to just not talk to her. The problem is she gets real upset when I dont chat to her and then I start feeling sorry for how im treating her.

I really want her - great girl and yes i know there are other great girls.

Should i persist or just let it slide? I think I know what you guys will suggest

I sujjest you aknowledge that women cheat.. everyone gets cheated on. I'm not saying it's a good thing. BUT... its true

It doesn't matter if she has a bf AT ALL. I literally had girls I fclosed calling their bf's FROM MY HOUSE and acting like they were shopping with friends. 70% of girls I fclosed had bf's. My point is if you're holding back 'cause of the bf, don't. She'll cheat if you're a better option. Get her to hang out where it's just the two of you and escalate. If you got questions pm me, as I got a lot of experience with situations like this.

EASY.

Tell her that you would love to make the CD for her, but the choices are FAR too hard for you to make.. The Pressure!!! The Pressure!!!!

Tell her that she needs to come to your place so the two of you can pick out the songs that you will burn for her CD..

Light up the hookah, and game AT your house.

Boom.. sexxx

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Thanks mate for that and for all comments.

We used to hang out a great deal and be comfortable around each other but now since we declared we like each other - things have gone a bit tits up.

I asked her out for Thursday night she was like you asking me on a date? I said maybe and she then said "I cant say yes I wanna go on one with you because you know why..." basically she doesnt like mentioning her boyfriend too much around me.

Anyways I did ask her whether her hesitancy in coming out with me, now, is because she wants what I want but too scared and feels guilty - she didnt respond. I put the question to her, tried to force the issue and I think/i know she wants me hard.

Im gonna see how thursday night goes but I think I will actually tell her how much I wanna bang her - I think I need to actually become that animal so to speak. Obviously in a more seductive manner rather than vulgar.

If a girl has a boyfriend, don't ask her on a "DATE", just make plans to see her..

If a girl likes you, she will be quick to rationalize to herself "Hey.. this isn't a date, me and this guy are just hanging out.. so it's not cheating.. people do this all the time"

Then your past that obstacle, now all you have to worry about is the sex part.

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I didnt ask her on a date.

We used to go for drinks before we declared we liked each other. And now I asked her to meet for a drink and she asked whether it was a date or not.

Thats the mindset im assuming.

ok well

we are actually gonna meet today and "talk" about things and where we stand.

im not sure whether i should be open and honest, that I like her, or play hard and dirty, tell her i like her and fancy her like mad and all i could think about is bedding her?

anyone care to help?