I made out with her on the first night, but the next time we hung out for like 5 hrs at the mall, shopping. I did a lot of kino, made her laugh and made fun of her a lot... Had my arm around her almost all the time and pushed her away every time she said something stupid. All she did was play with her hair and laugh.

She got super super depressed at the end of the night. After a long hard talk, I sat and listneed to what she had to say.. She has some major skeletons in the closet and some inner demons that are quite incredibly bad. I don't care, I still like her, if not as a friend.

Did I mess it up by sitting there and letting her spill her guts over me? I told her that I could be a good friend for her. Its up to her if she wants to keep being my friend. I already made out with her, but I'm afraid I got put into the nice-guy zone.. pretty much forcibly because she trusts NO ONE. We didn't make out the 2nd night.. just held each other.. I held her hand while she tried explaining why she can't trust me. I didn't tease her, but I made sure to lighten the mood as much as possible within boundaries.

Look at it this way: Did you listen to her because you wanted to, or because you wanted her to like you? If you did it for the second reason than you might be in trouble. Otherwise, you did good.