Hi guys,

Recently, I've asked a girl if she wanted to go to the Movie Theater with me to watch Toy Story 3. She said yes, and that we ll be going in the next 2 days or so.

So what are some things that I can do to make sure that she has a great date?

This is a girl I care about, so it is not like the other girls where I let them do the work.

Thanks in advance !

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"There is always a solution to even the hardest problem in life."

"If something is important enough to you, you won't give up"

Toy Story 3...

That's going to be difficult to build sexual tension off of.

When you're in the theater, just brush against her arm and so on, touch her leg, make some comment about the movie and then triangular gaze, etc.

You should, however, check the "Closing and Day 2" section of the forum, and check out the sticky "The Movie Date(Repost)". It's Chief's description of how you REALLY do a movie date.

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Yeah, that

Thanks guys. I'll do that ^_^

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"There is always a solution to even the hardest problem in life."

"If something is important enough to you, you won't give up"

Movie dates are a terrible choice. Look man, if you want her as a girlfriend you have to have a sexual connection. If you don't agree: girls want sex as much as us, they just don't want the "slut" label. Get into a sexual state. Visualize sexual things when you talk to her. When she gets horny, pull her somewhere with "I'm thirsty, let's go to my house"..

Your mindset right now is very AFC. She's not special, and if you focus on how to make this a great date for HER, than she's the prize. You're headed for LJBF land with this mindset.

Gotcha. Time to reflect. Thanks for the advice .

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"There is always a solution to even the hardest problem in life."

"If something is important enough to you, you won't give up"

No problem, good luck.

Yeah.. Movie dates are tough..

Toy Story 3 dates? Crazy tough.. It will be almost impossible to build attraction, and get her in a sexual state. The date won't go anywhere unless you're a pro. you'll drop her off and thats that. you lose this battle. but be really nice and charasmatic, and you can probably get another date.. And the next date... Dear god... don't chose a movie..

On the upside.. I've heard TERRIFIC things about Toy Story 3.. I kind of want to see it too. you can take me on a date there.. because I'm not putting out.

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"Movie dates are a bad idea" = limiting belief

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Actually Physically its hard to create sexual tension i.e. no talking , eye contact , limited kino ect

However if you choose a scarier film than toystory 3 ( theirs a new one coming out which is suppose to be as scary as paranormal activities)

Scary films cause you to be frightened , scared jumpy it makes your heart rush ect . Theese are the same feelings that you feel when your attracted to someone and it can be easily mistaken ( which is a great advantage as it causes a fake attraction to build)

and this isnt me chatting some BS about what i presume happens its psychologically proven !

Besides when she's scared you can be the man their to make her feel better, laugh at her and tease her about her overreactions

What I do is, I meet girls an hour or two before the movie. We go for a walk, maybe get something to drink or eat, in this time I try to build as much kino as possible, get a make out etc (this is usually for day 2..IF I choose to watch a movie with her).
So when we go to watch a movie it isn't like really weird. I try to pick a movie which has been in the cinemas for a while (not something that has come out recently)..and I go at a time where there will be less people in the cinemas.
By making sure I've gotten her nearly completely comfortable with me BEFORE we even go to the cinemas, I'm ensuring there won't be some weird, non-sexual tension when we watch the movie.

Another thing I do is I don't tell her what we are to do on the date. I would say "lets meet up today, maybe get some food or a drink etc" Then from there I'll say, I feel like watching a movie tonight. If the day2 has been going extremely well up until this point where I'm confident to close, I will say something like "I have a hard drive full of awesome movies and half of which I haven't watched" So we go back to my place to watch a movie on my laptop or TV.
IF I don't feel 110% confident for a close, I would eventually just say 'lets watch a movie' and we'd go see whats on.

Only advice I can give you that is helpful to you at this point is, see her a while before the movie starts.
In terms of Kino, do what you feel is comfortable to you and her. I remember when I first started out, I even joked with a girl about what I should be doing while watching the movie so as not to make it awkward. I said something along the lines of "oh I would put my arm around ya, but I don't know you that well, we'd be moving to fast." But I don't wanna just be sitting there because then it'll be awkward. And we joked about it.

I'll agree.. But with the info given, I'll stand by my post.

Movie dates can work out for the best, but it just seems like the way the OP portrayed the situation, there are easier ways to cut the shit.


So Movie dates are NOT a bad idea, especially if the two of you really want to see a movie. But I still think they are tough..

you know what works really well, is a movie date, but at your place.. on TV. I have gotten wayyyy more f-closes than I care to count from that movie scenario.

If you take a girl to the cinema however, always have plans POST movie set up before the movie..
don't wait until after the movie to say "hey, do you wanna go to my place for drinks" Have it planned out, and that way, your solid.

BUt then I would pose, why not skip the shit, and just start at your place?

Either way, Chief.. You are correct, saying a movie date is a horrible idea, only limits your ability to play the game... I think you had a post about the classic movie date some time ago. good stuff

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Great. Thanks man. I was just looking for that post yesterday. Typing Movie Dates in the search engine's unworkable.

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"There is always a solution to even the hardest problem in life."

"If something is important enough to you, you won't give up"

If you plan on fclosing them inside than I agree. As a date with a gf it's also a good idea. But as a first date it's terrible. Every guru said it.

You can't talk during the movie, AND it's every chode's default date (if it's nota restaurant). It's a no win situation.

Eh... I recommend against quoting something if you haven't read it. Namely, the link.