Counted are the times I've had sex. 6 times I've had it, and only once have I been able to come.
5 different girls, and only with one I came (In like 5 mins) ... but with my current girlfriend, we just did it for the first time last night, and I was unable to finish. We went at it for nearl 1hr 40 mins (Foreplay included) and sometimes I could feel it coming, but then it would just slip away.
She was a virgin, and we stopped the sex because she got tired. I don't mind at all.
Looking back at the one time I could finish I recall that I had not masturbated that day, or the previous day. Which is probably why I was able to finish.
The thing is with this girl, this is a LTR, and I don't want to be like this everytime we do it, not finishing.
I don't know if it has ever happened to anyone, could it be psychological, or should I stop masturbating ??
Im planning on stopping from today, or at least only once a week.

You can stop masturbating but the problem is probably mental. The purpose of sex is to reproduce, so when you're reaching the tipping point, you should think about the end goal of sex, which is to drain your bag in there, and that she really wants it. It works for me.

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Really, masturbation stops you. It's a great tool when you're alone somewhere for a long and sometimes just to stay conscious. You know that feeling when you've not shot for at least two weeks? Everything looks so sexy, every girl looks to have something which arouses me, it's porn everywhere. I would reccomend doing it once a week only.

I use masturbation a few hours before the sex to make the sex longer, but sometimes it really fucks the things off an I am unable to finish. Try to catch the idea what's the biggest arousal for you. The mind that I will finish inside the girl is so hot to me that I must control myself not to think about that because after the pictures comes into the head, it's almost near the finish

Stopping masturbation also can be hard for the first days. It seems as a habit, but say yourself: "I don't need that now" and yoy should do very well without it.

Good luck

Yeah, slow down the self gratification and it should help. The other thing is concentration. You can get too caught up in thinking and not really concentrating on what you are feeling. You can try closing your eyes right before as well. You can also experimenting with your breathing. Some times holding your breath and kind of -pushing- can help. Pay attention to your body when you masturbate and what you do right before you come. Try to reproduce that.

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So it seems like my problem right here is mostly about masturbating, I used to do it like everyday, sometimes more than once. It will be hard but I will try.
Also... I should mention, that when we we're doing it, there were several times when I would come, but I would contract my pelvis to stop it, thinking that it was too quick for her.
I will try to reduce masturbation to once a week, and see when the next time we do it, how it goes.
Thanks for your advice, and I will let you know : )