Hello, fellow PUAs.
All of us have our desires. I have a unique taste for making a female fall head-over-heels in love with me. (I will give a description of my being so that you will understand my entire position.) I am romantic and deal with any obstacle so that she is so seduced by my allure that she is powerless over my every whim. Using various tactics that shows them that I am very unique, I make the female feel so special and beautiful that she glows with happiness. Their happiness and feelings of fulfillment truly makes me glow as well, for it exudes from them into me. I love to see my effect on them—and it creates a feeling of fulfillment to me. There is this feeling that I get from their true desire for me and contentment with my actions that keeps me going. There is a bad side to this story.

I do not open myself to love anymore. I had a three and a half year relationship whereby I loved my college sweetheart. I no longer wish to give that kind of commitment to any female at the moment (I’m 24 right now and enjoying the single life). I want them to love me, yet I do not reciprocate. I give them everything, yet I would never say that I love them whereas they say it to me. I try my best to make them better and stronger individuals, teaching them trades from martial arts to love making.

To make matters worse, I have two girlfriends right now who are so intrigued by me that they no longer want to have fun with me only even though the sex is truly amazing with both; they want a more serious commitment. What do I do in a situation where I do not want to break any of their hearts, yet sooner or later one will find out? It is not as easy as simply choosing the one that I like more because I like them both for different reasons. How do I break the trust I have built based on loyalty—one that I have broken by being with two of them, yet they no nothing about yet? I do not want to hurt them, so I continue having both fall for me more and more. I even feel that it is too late to let one of them go without hurting that person.

This situation is rather complex; I understand. I am interested in knowing your opinion. Thanks for your time. (I LOVE THIS COMMUNITY!)

Dude if feel ya. I'm the same age, I've got the same views but you're in the wrong game if you don't wanna break hearts. Think you should look at damage control or even prevention rather than try and eradicate the problem. Girls are emotional creatures anyways so really can't be helped.

Always be honest when dating more than one woman. You will save yourself a huge headache that way.

I can see where you come from because I myself have been through such a situation. At times it almost makes me feel powerless seeing her puppy eyes looking at me asking for those three words back after she says them only for me to smile and not give them back. Its a tough game and you can fall hard...I see myself falling sometimes, and all I can say is stay strong and pick yourself back up. The thing that helps me is to cut connection for a few days and ask myself if i want commitment. If the answer is no, I communicate those feelings. So the most important thing here is that you are honest to yourself by being honest to the person that loves you. If they love you, they will still want to see you, and if they still want to see you, they will.

PS: If you have built their trust in you based on loyalty, then you are in a relationship with two different women and you are not actually single, this is not how you live the single life. You have to be honest with them from the start. Just my 2 cents for you in the future.

I want to address each of your replies.
First, Charlie. Great advice. It is the one that I truly think was most to my agreement. I'm curious where do you think that I can get information about prevention and damage control. I have a general idea about how to deal with these issues if they were to arise. I am curious if there is a source where I can read about other guys who have had problems with their relationships so that I can learn from their mistakes. If you have any idea about such sources, tell me and it would be highly appreciated.
Second, Dondeluis. I agree that honesty is very important. I hate it that I made the mistake of getting to know another girl while being with one. That caused the seduction that took place. Now, I truly like both of them and love the situation that I am in now of juggling two women who lust for me and love me. However, i cannot be honest with neither of them anymore when it concerns the other female. What happens is that each thinks that I am only that person's. They claim me as their's. It sucks, but I play along--its wrong. I justify my behavior by simply treating them like princesses and giving them that desire and love that is so hard to find.
Third, Audacious123. I love it how you put it. I am not single anymore. I thought that I was for a while, yet I am not. While I am just in a relationship with two women at the same time, I am taken. It's awesome that you tell me that because I noticed that sub-consciously I have behaved in such a way that proves this. For instance, there was this new girl. I started talking with her and I told her right away that I am seeing someone; that way I do not lead her on like I did the other two.
Thanks so much for the help dudes.

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