1st date went, 2nd date went well, she bounced me when i tried to kiss her on the 1st date, 2nd date i got it right and there were numerous kisses through-out the date. After 2nd date she invited me inside to taste left over pizza she had ordered that day (she knew her mother had gone out for 20min). Now, she's very frigid and i knew she was not inviting me in in order to f*ck, but rather to see me for a little bit longer as she was leaving to go on holiday abroad for 2 weeks the next day. She MIGHT have wanted to fool around, its hard to say though.

I had 2 options after accepting the invite to go inside (as mentioned above she lives with mommy):

- i could have made a move sexually. if i got that right she would have left on her trip with a good/interesting memory of me! problem is we didnt have much time but still thats no excuse

- hold out and dont make a sexual move, send her on her trip in anticipation and make her wonder. Would eat her up inside and make her curious as to why I didnt try anything on her (fine line between friend zoning yourself here and leaving her wanting more, but in this case chances are slim of LJBF she knows how confident I am as i have conveyed this well up until now (ie. she wont think im a wuss for not making a move, she will think 'does he actually like me'.

Being as frigid as she is i thought the 2nd option would work better with her. Also, she is 20 (and drop dead fucking gorgeous might i add) and I am 29. I sense that she is a bit weary of my age and what i expect from her, i can tell by the questions she asks. Anyway the thing is, if i had tried to sex her it may have backfired and she gets onto the plane with the memory of denying me in the sack, not good for business!

Considering the circumstances and the 'type' of girl here, what would you have done? (things are going fine as she is in contact with me on FB, but im obviously trying to keep contact minimal, just enough for the line not to go slack while she's over there)

ps. yes with all other girls and scenarios if im invited inside i obviously go for home run