Hey guys, Whats up?

I have read a few books, The Game (obviously - amazing), half way through the natural art of seduction by Richard La Ruina (Quite good, more factual rather than a story, enjoying it so far)

I've learnt a lot from these books, also I'm glad to say that I'm quite good at this in my own way. I've been clubbing before but not often and this was before I was comfortable with talking to girls etc. I am better on day game but rarely have the chance to try it out as I'm still at school. I finish school in about 3 weeks and I barely celebrated my 18th with my friends so I plan to go to a stip club with them and a bit of clubbing before hand. Its likely after school is over I will be going out often.

Simply, I want some books that specifically talk about Clubs, Conversations, and Openers. Recommend away

Secondly I want all your info and tips on Strip clubs, as its the first time that we will all be going what are the general do's and don'ts. I know that there is no touching, gotta pay for your dances etc. Is it acceptable to be "Aroused" forgive the term haha, while a naked, beautiful woman dances on top of you? Obviously I'm not going to cum or anything I'm quite confident of my self in that respect.


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Sab x

As it happens i just read some material on this, ill give you a few hints to get you started

1) do not pay for a dance
2) if she comes and sits you lap ask her to sit next to you. Do not do it on her terms make it your terms, and set yourself out from being a customer, (which is really not something you want to be labled as.)
3) have a conversation with her

Note: Do not go on a busy day, go on a quite day, on a busy day she will escuse herself from your company becuase she will have many punters willing to pay her for dances which you are just not doing. oh and do not drink.

haha, Im not actually going to pick up a stripper, Im just there for the experience.. Maybe when im a little more confident!

No offense man, but if you JUST turned 18, it might be hard to game a stripper that is 22+ years old. Best to go to strip clubs at age 21+ because that is the age for the more exclusive clubs with dancers who do not need money as badly as other clubs.

Strippers are tricky too.

If you aren't from the U.S. though, go for it by all means because laws are different in the U.S. for alcohol and clubs.

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as someones whose visited enough strip clubs i do have to say, dont go to strip clubs to sarge! its not that its difficult its really awkward last time i number closed in a club i done it in the booth whilst dancing and it looks a bit suspect to pull out a mobile so i had to try and memorise it, the time before that me and another left the club together and she told me she was separated and broke down on the train, a lot of strippers have baggage and the few good ones are difficult to disarm

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yea, NOT actually going to do any picking up or sarging.. I was just asking for Tips considering im just going for fun

You should NOT bring a wad of cash to the strip club unless you wanna blow your whole money wad on hot, naked girls with daddy issues. That's just my experience though.

-Chicoman

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Amazing the way people can misinterpret a post when they aren't paying any real attention!

He's asking two separate questions for anyone else who wants to help:

1) Book recommendations for normal, regular club game
2) Tips on how to behave in a strip club


I'll handle the strip club portion, as I spent entirely too much time in them a couple years ago...

First, don't worry too much about how you act... just have fun. For the most part you'll sit there watching and maybe tipping the dancer on stage once in a while. One of the girls will probably approach you and ask if you want to go into the back room, which can get expensive but is fun in it's own way.

It's definitely ok to be aroused, in fact the strippers generally want you to be as you'll be more likely to agree to another dance! (You'll be asked how many you want up front, but most girls will ask if you want more after your pre-paid dances are up. Typically there is an SPAM nearby, and you can go get more money when you finally realize you kept saying yes until your bank account was nearly busted! )

The laws on touching vary by locality, and the actual rules vary by club and time of day. This applies both to girls on stage and girls getting a dance with you, though if they are talking to you for a dance and in your lap the limit is basically set by the girl herself.

Don't go grabbing their tits or anything, but watch what other guys are doing... they probably know the rules. I typically "accidentally" brush the leg when I'm putting the tip into their garter/gstring and escalate from their on future tips. The girl will warn you when you've gone too far, or the bouncer may come over and tell you you're not allowed to do that. You won't get kicked out on a first offense!

Above all though, remember that strippers are people too and treat them as such. Yeah, they'll pretend to be nice to anyone with cash... but they'll hang out with you longer if they actually like you. Feel free to practice your conversation with them too, I gained a bit of confidence with talking to women by talking to half-naked girls in strip clubs. Plus if they like you, they may stay in your lap longer without you having to pay for the back room!

Thank you Onoma, glad someone actually reads my post correctly! I'm glad you could tell me that Info cleared a few things up for me! Now I would give you points for answering my question but I have 0.3 at the time of writing this so I can't

can anyone give me some good titles to read then?

Probably the best books to read other than ( the game and gambler's)
is Swingcats - real world seduction
and anything by david deangelo

But yeah Swingcats is a must and will really improve your game

To people who say... "don't pay for a lap dance"...


How do you NOT pay for a lap dance?? That's the first thing that will ruin your friendship with the stripper. They will bitch you out, call the bouncer and your ass will be kicked out.

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They mean don't get one at all, NOT get one then don't pay.

If you want to game the stripper though, you cannot be seen as willing to pay for the privilege of touching her.

I have seen a guy pick up a stripper and buy lapdances though. So probably if your game is good enough it doesn't matter much.

Thanks, ill look it up

haha my bad I automatically assume anything about strip clubs will be about picking up strippers.

My suggestion is: have a spending limit and try to stay away from lapdances. Lapdances can cost around $20+ and you may still need money for dancers and drinks.

The best thing is to go, have fun, and get some boobies in your face

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boobies in my face? sounds good