An experienced PUA still conscious about his looks?



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PostPosted: Thu Jun 17, 2010 7:17 am 
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I've been in the game for about 2 years now and for some reason, I'm just really conscious about the way I look.

For example, I am changing my hairstyle. I am thinking of starting with a buzz cut, but I have read all of these posts "Do buzz cuts look good on a guy?" via yahoo answers. The responses were very mixed with girls absolutely hating buzz cuts and other girls absolutely loving them.

I know it's easy for everyone to say "stop worrying" and that "looks don't matter" but I am always afraid of what girls think of me. I always want to look hot to girls and stuff. In this situation I am afraid girls won't like me or something because they hate short haircuts on guys.

I don't know if you guys have any suggestions for helping me deal with the fear of my looks and stuff. Do you guys think that it is just a paranoid fear I have sometimes? Or do you think that things like a guy's hairstyle have an impact on girls?

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PostPosted: Thu Jun 17, 2010 8:55 am 
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PostPosted: Thu Jun 17, 2010 11:33 am 
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Swerve Buzzzzzz cuts , Go mad grow it and do something with it . Having good hair which you can style into different styles is a form of peacocking. I would grow it . If your Gonna keep it short atleast get HUGE Muscles !

But with your other question about being concerned about looks , I feel the same way sometimes but thats to do with scaring on my face ( id say thats alot worse than a bad haircut ) that i cant do nothing about until Next January ! But that still hasnt stopped me making a move on girls just remeber your "Fxck it response!" and everyone time i use my Fxck it response its always a positve outcome .


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PostPosted: Thu Jun 17, 2010 12:11 pm 
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You are not your hair.
Ditto.

PUA's just like to look nice, because they like how it makes them feel and it makes things easier.

If they don't look nice, doesn't matter, they can still get the girl, no problem.

So, enjoy looking nice, but don't base your game around your appearance, because, if you do, then your game will probably turn to shit.

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PostPosted: Thu Jun 17, 2010 6:54 pm 
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thanks guys really good advice.

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