Anyone just feel like they have really good success steaks and cold streaks? Just last week a girl invited me out to the beach and then I left early to another girls house to make out with her.


This week I moved into the friend zone with the first girl and the second girl just kind of flaked. The few other girls I am talking to have also flaked on me and they are like HB5 not even that cute. I have no plans this weekend. Been in the game for almost 2 years now so im feeling disappointed

This happens to me too... I think it has a lot to do (at least for me) from drawing my state from outside sources instead of from within myself

When I have success with women, I become more confident; thus, my successes build on each other. Similarly, when I do poorly in the field, my confidence decreases and my success rate declines

Tyler, from RSD, talks a bit about drawing state from within yourself, instead of from outside sources, so that you can always be in this confident aura and have successes with women even after a quick string of failures

Establish a more positive mindset; getting down on yourself will only cause a further downward spiral. View each experience as an opportunity to learn, not as a "success" or "failure." Take a good, honest look at ways in which your game could stand improvement, and work to fill those gaps or make those corrections. Resolve any conflicts in your life that might be preoccupying you and causing anxiety. Spend more time pursuing your passions and building a dynamic, rich life; this will make you a more interesting person, and the fulfillment that comes from these pursuits will greatly enhance your emotional state. As a result, you'll begin to feel you deserve better than the HB5s you've been pursuing these days. And, yes, if you work on yourself, you'll avoid having outlook swings based on external "successes" and "failures."

Good luck!

Peace,
Ciornia

there are peaks and valleys to everything, making money. you lose some, you gain some.

Be thankful, valleys force you to improve so you will get to new heights.