I have to agree with coffee, if it will go somewhere it will be JUST FRIENDS

those text and the frequency is CREEPY, "I think your seeing other man"... WOW MAN!!! too much, just for this one she might be afraid that your a psycho

This cannot go to a LTR now, unless she wants complete control over you, and girls don't want a relationship with a guy they have complete control over

seriously man, continue with your life, next time don't freak out, her life is not all about you, and your life should not be only about her

the most important rule to remember "It's not a big deal"

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thanks octivanious, that sounds awesome!
i am now off to america for 3 months anyway, so il be so busy, she can wait till i get back to suck my dick, probs the thing i need to do, go away for 3 months.

i told her friend she fucked and chucked me, and she was like, no i didnt! and stuff to me etc... that seemed to go down well lol

She started to text me last night when she was drunk saying,
do you like me then?
me: what do you think?
her: Yes X x
me: do you like me?
her: maybe Xx

perhaps i should declare my dis interest, or say, stop texting me unless you want sex or sumin haha. Or if i say... you had ur chance, now all i'l give you is sex.

lol

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Its not about interest or non interest , its about you controlling your inner demons.

You can tell a girl you interested and she wont go away if you are truely capable of holding that frame without being needy.

Whats needy ? needy is the character who needs that other person to go on with their lifes. They need to suck the other person presence in order for them to be present.

My personal advice is tell her the way you feel knowing that it could or could not happen, life is bigger than another persons feelings towards you. And if she doesnt like you back its fine no problem however you will always be in her life to help her and guide her if she asks for it.

Be a MAN and dont be a boy trying to be a MAN

nice one... I truly didn't thought it will go like that

saying "you had your chance" is a bit dumb, it makes the whole thing VERY MUCH of a deal, and it wasn't a big deal...

she likes you for a reason, just keep doing that

and what attracts women is not disinterest but emotional stimulation, just act as if nothing happed and continue gaming assuming she's attracted to you (NOT... I repeat NOT assuming she's in a relationship with you... coz she's not), right now she wants to "play" so show her you're a good player and not a play thing

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street light.... this is really the most confusing girl ever.

She shows no emotion, her best friend tells me to call her, and says she really likes me etc... but she wont show a single bit of emotion, apart from when shes drunk, shes lovely, and im like wtf... im wanted lol.

She hasnt made any move today, so im gna wait for her to contct me. Hopefully fuck her this week before i got to america, kinda took her off my relationship cards.

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First off she was drunk not saying what she said isnt true but there is something up with that if she's not gonna say it sober.
She's interested but not head over heels interested, ur interest is obviously higher and she knows that usually thats a bad thing but too late.

Dont give her any ultimatums she'll most likely eject and reject you. she's likes you but your not giving her that feeling she wants, shes waiting for u to bring that emotion out something that I believe needs to be done in person. Give her that feeling of lust towards you

what would you say was the best way to do that jelly?

Also when im with her, how should i show my emotions? or shouldn't i?

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PUSHING ANYTHING will result in the creepy card.

Girls want to play the game.. as SL said, show her you are a good player, and be PLAYFUL and FUN, not serious, and overly sexual

and definitely do NOT say "Don't text me unless you want sex" too direct, and it puts out even further the possibility of an LTR

She's not confusing, you are just making your job difficult, and getting in your own way by trying to force the relationship.

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She's not confusing YOU are confusing, to yourself

first you act all needy and want a relationship, and then you jump around saying "I'm gonna fuck her before I leave"

You jumping to 2 extremes (in Your head), the fact that she's slightly attracted to you won't leave to sex and won't leave to a relationship, it's just a jumping board for you to escalate

you have to be flirty and fun, and "let nature take it's course", don't think that the fact that your leaving soon will make her have sex with you, so DON'T use it to stimulate her

and it's ok to show interest, the fact that you want her and she (slightly) want's you is out on the open, so from here it's push pull playing

and another thing

3 months is NOT a freezout, it's breaking the ends

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Jesus! You really put it well there street light! Just seeing how my mind was thinking.

Haven't heard from her for 2 days now, she came on fb chat earlier, and she never does unless she wants to talk to me,

she could be waiting for me to contact her...

at the start of everything i would just text her stuff like, coffee ?
wanna suck my dick? etc.... she would love all that kind of stuff.

However, my game over the last 2 years has improved by a billion percent, and im getting to meet girls, not getting blown away, building up a social circle, becoming confident around people, its all great. Now im reaching the stage where i want to turn my attraction into emotional power. anyone know any good articles on that at all? iv searched the forums for a few.

I feel as though my game latly has been turning girls on, so they want to fuck me asap, and iv done it in a cocky funny way, works for sex, but i keep fucking up trying to change the attraction to emotion.

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Just a thought

try meeting up with her... but forget about pick up, just for half an hour and just try to be genuine with her

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last night, hadnt spoken to her for 2 days. texted her out of the blue...
started off flirty...then she said your confusing and it went bad at a point.

Thing is i need to see her in person, we get on so well, but texting has fucked it up.

Shes going to text me today, hopefully. How would you suggest asking her to meet up?

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"Hi.. wanna hang?"
or the casual
"I'm going to XXX wanna join"

or any other way... I can understand she's confused..

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hmmm its so hard because she works nights, shes self concious about loads

she wont eat infront of me
she wont show her belly, even tho shes slim
she wont let me see her in the mornings

and on her nights off shes always got friends going round hers, its so hard to see her, thats probs why it pissed me off in the first place as i didn't see her for a week after i shagged her. but asking her out loads etc.... must have made me look so pushy... but she just wanted to text constantly

perhaps i should leave it.

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My first initial thought is...oneitis.

My immediate second thought was... oneitis brought on by a female PUA. They do exist, very rare but they do. Strippers seduce men to empty their wallets, women all over read Cosmopolitan to "learn 3 summer tricks to blow his mind" etc.

Maybe she's thinking "I gave you what you want, now give me what I want." -whatever that is, who knows.

Reguardless, this situation would be blown in my book, because I wouldn't know how to fix it. Note to self: Dont ever do that again.