this are things that work for me and just want to let you know my point of view. if it helps koo and if it doesnt koo.

just saying a random opener is kinda creepy so this is what i do. you dont have to do it but it helps me not feel so akward.

go up to someone and just ask a something normal, something negging, or something funny.

if shes looking at cloth
pull an ugly shirt and ask "would you really weird this" if she says yes or no "oh i dont think you could pull it off thou..." with a smile.
of course not all girls will talk to you the same way.
you will get those girls that will give you a good answer and others who will be stuck up and maybe ignore you.

we're still at the opening stage.
depending on the answer she gives you, now you can either go to the real opener or go into seeing what type of person she is. but i'll let you guys now what happens after an open later. ima be posting alot almost everyday becasue its summer and dont have anything to do.lol

a mistake i always did was i talked too much and too fast. let the lady finish what she is saying. LESS IS MORE. after shes telling you how she feels about the opener wait 2 seconds and dont say anything. if she looks at you or asks YOU a question, that gives you a sign that your good in the conversation. some will not ask you anything or look at you, it doesnt mean you messed up, just go to the next thing which is seeing what type of person she is...

tips.... when your new at talking to people your thinking of what am i going to say next or you focus on her. thats good but this is where multi taskers will succedd. also focus on yourself. try to catch yourself talking and slow it down. its better to get your information out slowly but surely than to talk fast and only hearing half of what you tried to say.

heres something important too that i just picked up. when you talking to someone new, dont stand close. this is what i do. i stand or sit a few feet away and while im talking i step back. im not trying to let them now i like them by getting closer cause that makes it akward. strangers have a ring around them of space and if you go in it when their not ready that could make you that WEIRD guy. you might be asking how do i know this. I WAS THAT WEIRD GUY....

ima be posting more. keep checking my blog.

on my blog i have my 3 different type of girls.