mods feel free to move this if it's posted in the wrong section, wasn't sure where to put it.

So I met this girl on myspace, we started texting/talking on the phone. Our first meetup she came to my apartment and we hung out and watched TV. There wasn't much of a spark, I didnt even try for a k-close or anything. She just didnt seem into it.

Here's the odd thing though. Although she doesnt seem to be interested in me sexually, she continues to text me and send me naked pics. She's also told me some sexual stuff about how she loves to give bjs, etc. It's such a weird dynamic, and i'm not sure what to make of it. I've never seen anything like it before.

So what I want to do is let her know that I want a sexual relationship with her. And I'm curious about the best way to do that. I was thinking about just kinda coming out with it the next time she texted me. I was also thinking about giving her an ultimatum. Not sure what the best strategy is here.

What would you guys recommend?

kino....

dude just fucking kiss her, shes begging for it but shy in person, say stuff like, wanna fuck? in a jokeyt way, get her in the mood!

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Law of Attraction

Is this really a question?

She's sending you nudie pics and telling you she loves fellatio....really?

You dont have to tell her you want a sexual relationship, just go for it, she obviously wants one if she's telling you shit like that.

-Sleye

HELLO?! she is sending you nude pics...do you need a formal invitation???!

I understand the responses and I know how my post looks. But what I can't seem to explain is how uninterested she is with me sexually. Also, regarding the BJ discussion, that was before we met in person and there hasnt been any hot sex talk since.

As far as the naked pic thing goes, I have gotten tons of them from tons of different girls. Occasionally, those girls ended up being girls that I didn't sleep with, so I don't automatically look at that as a sign that she wants me to sex her.

Nonetheless, I'm gonna go with what you guys said. I just started texting her now and I'm going to invite her over and we'll see how it goes. Will report back...

GOOD LUCK BRO! IF She's just a tease kick her to the curb! I hate teases that lead guys on like that. Especialy like THAT!

Give the business!

work on your inner game, learn sexual tension and bridges. move to the next level

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A's Ranks Higher than King and Queen

get her to your yard;go to ur room... lay on ur bed... (remove nething from ur room where she can sit such as chairs etc these r a distraction esp if shes shy) ne way.. put a film on.. then randomly notice sumthing about her hands, nails, jewelry as an excuse to touch her hand...then hug her or sumthing an go in for the kiss.. then just act the man as if u do this all the time and bang the girl. Its nothing for you your a PUA u do this all the time (even if you don't just tell yourself you do!)

more random weirdness.

so I texted her yesterday, made small talk for a bit, and then invited her over. she responded with (what I assumed was) some b.s. excuse about she can't because her car is broken or something. So I told her just to text me when she wanted to hang out. She responded with maybe later this week. I decided to just let it go and not text her anymore.

So she texts me today and says hi and then tells me she made a video of her rubbing her clit. She sends it to me and I ask her when I'll get to rub it and she responds with "lol" to which I respond with "?" and then she says probably this weekend or maybe earlier, depends when i get my car fixed. Then we texted a little more and she told me about how she likes to get off and other sexual stuff.

So this has been really weird for me because she seems to be showing tons and tons of interest but whenever I try to get her over she doesnt want to. Obviously I'll try to get her over this weekend, we'll see where that goes. Thoughts?

Just sexually escalate out of your mind. It sounds like a "shit test", of sorts, to test if you've got the balls to get sexy with her even though she isn't on the same wavelength.

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Don't hate, just dominate.

First she seems one of them girls that gives it over the phone, but needs pressing in person, kind of shy, or crap with first moves, this is your job, you should take the lead anyway.

Don't seem overly keen, be flirty too in segments, then when she is round, get her close to you, touch the sensitive areas and make your move, or you will lose this.

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Been there, done it, oh and still doing it!

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