Hey guys
I'm new here
actually i'm new to the whole gaming thing
I have almost none experience with women, don't get me wrong, i'm very social guy with a lot of male and female friends (the females are about 6 tops..maybe soon it'll change) and i'm quite good looking (at least in my opinion lol) but it seems that i lack the understanding and confidence on how to approach and how to create attraction and connection with women

anyway-
tommorow me and several friends are going out to a stripping club celebrating for a friend
and i wanted to know what good routines/mindset/approaches/or any other tips should i know before gaming strippers

Don't get me wrong, since i'm new to this whole gaming thing i'm not expecting to get any kind of close (though it would be nice)
but i thought why the hell not giving it a try
even if i'll crash and burn it'll still be more than the experience with women i had so far
and maybe if after approaching strippers (which is almost all the time 9 or 10) i'll feel less anxious to to approach girls in clubs/bars/steers etc'


I will really appreciate your help guys
-AMI289



p.s.
I didn't knew where to post it because it envolves several aspects that each have is own forum (approach, routine, etc') but i thought it's best suited here

I think gaming a stripper is easy compared to other girls. I hooked up with a hot stripper once after we left the strip club (gained so much confidence after that lol), and this other time I got a strippers number and we hung out a lot after that and went on some dates (but no hooking up w/ her).

The reason I think they're easier is because when you're getting a lap dance you already have their full attention. Most guys don't have conversations with them but I always do. And I always act rich and sophisticated, and I keep my distance. Strip clubs are full of hood rats so make them notice that you're different from most guys who go there. Don't act like a newbie, don't be shy or stare at their boobs... give them the up most respect and a lot of eye contact. When you talk to them ask them questions so they think that you're genuinely interested in them (like what did they do before this, does she enjoy working here, etc). Ask for a second lap dance form the same girl if she's cool and ask her to get a drink w/ you too. Most strippers are always down to get a drink or two. The longer you get a stripper to chill with you the better chance you have.

And at the end see if there's any chance of hanging out with her later on and get her number!

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Some people are like slinkys, not really good for anything but make you smile when you push them down the stairs.

1. Don't pay her for a dance

2. Make fun of her immediately; the moment she comes over and opens her brilliant mouth

3. Open her up in a quick and interesting conversation

4. Tell her you don't pay for dances and she should leave you alone because "people are gonna think I'm into you" or "you're costing her money (not that I don't understand, of course..lol)" etc.

4. Talk about any mysticism or spiritual shit...strippers love it

And go on from there like you normally would.

Big things are making her not see you like a customer, but as a higher-status guy who's actually being cool enough to talk to her immediately and from there, it's game on muthafucka.

i just read this chapter in Mysteries The Pickup Artist and everything WorkEthic said is 100% right Brownie, that might work for some people but...eh. Only thing I'd like to add is phasing(try to relate to her and show her your not just another customer). Also you could try the whole ex stripper boyfreind routine so that she thinks you know where she's coming from. Like saying "I've dated a stripper before so I don't need to hear about all your problems." Also tell her to turn off her stripper game! As if your on to her. Refer to everyone else as mark, and call her a dancer, entertainer, or exotic dancer but NEVER A STRIPPER! This is all text book stuff that sounds pretty practical to me. I haven't been able to practice yet because i'm still on my tour. Also I think it's harder for me to get a stripper because most of the military guys that go into the strip clubs are sleeze balls even me lol and they know when we get paid so were nuthin but horny walking SPAM times 100! Also there is zero AA seeing as how they'll usually come to you.

P.S. I might sound like a sleaze when I say this but if you hit up enough stripper and fclose your confidence will probably boost up.