| Hey guys, here’s my list of 15 things that could turn someone from AFC to a PUA, of course most are obvious things, but this is how I started to change my life. Whilst I am still work in progress, I have improved 200% by these 15 points. Chel.
1. Being a man and/or a PUA really comes down to inner game, get that tight and you’ll be reaching goals in no time. Also way too many people use the PUA learning methods just to try and pick women up, use it as a perk to improve your life in every aspect and naturally women will come.
2. Don’t put too much emphasis on certain areas of your game.
3. Always try to think positive, small things = the big thing.
4. Do not let a woman dictate you, in time you will be the boss.
5. Solve problems early as possible.
6. Don’t over think things. Have the “fuck it” I’ve got nothing to lose approach. One shot, one opportunity, make it happen, if you don’t try, you don’t get.
7. Never let IT slip - ( try to keep your new, good body language, eye contact etc with everyone you know, not just women your trying to pickup)
8. Make sure you’re doing things that make you feel good/better about yourself. I.E, have hobbies, keep fit, a feel good factor is priceless.
9. Stop imitating others, learn your own way, tips come in handy, but create your own personality for your own game.
10. Socialise with the right people. Fun people, happy people, positive people, and the kind of person you wish to be. People we’re involved with do have big influences on our lives, the reasons are obvious, and you want to progress, not go backwards.
11. Be special, stand out, and make a good impression. Do things that other guys don’t do, be the topic of conversation when you exit the set, a WOW factor really isn’t hard to achieve.
12. Keep busy! – Being busy obviously attracts people, because they become interested in what you’re up to, plus, being busy will expand your social circle, therefore you’ll meet new people without trying to!
13. IOI’S are your tools, when you see them, make sure to pick them up, use them how you and when you feel necessary.
14. Becoming the AMOG – Have value, value yourself and others will value you. Inner game and outer game work with each other that is all you need for success, not a set of routines. Don’t get it twisted though, believing and thinking well of yourself doesn’t mean go and have a massive EGO, as that can be a major downfall.
15. DON’T BE AFRAID TO FAIL – Get rid of that fear or rejection inside you, whenever I’ve told myself I’m going to fail, I failed. The way to get over your fears (in this case speaking to women is 9/10 times the problem) is to be exposed to your problem, which would be you being around women and speaking, once you get through small talk you’ll rise quickly, practice makes perfect, said so many times, but so true.
Chel _________________ Been there, done it, oh and still doing it!
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It's still a good list!