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I know for sure there a couple of othere girl i'm not attracted to, that work there that like me because i'm myself around them, (i know just be yourself, harder said then done)
Youre right it is easier said than done indeed, but there is only one way to progress. You MUST ask her out, do NOT give a dam about whether she says yes or no, see it as a practice run. If she says no, thats fine, no skin off your back! If she says yes, awesome. Youre one step closer.
Next time you see her say something like..
'hey you wana join me for a quick drink after work down the road...ive got plans later so can only stay for about 30 min though...im just dying for a cold [something]'
Be extremely casual about it as if you guys go for drinks after work every day.