@Highschooler07 :
I can relate to your situation.
I know how you feel.
The first thing you have to do is arm yourself with a looooot patience. I mean it...
Becoming good with women takes time, especially if you start from scratch. You're just 16. Thank god for finding the seduction community so early.
I'm 18, you have no idea how much I wish I knew this stuff back when I was 16... Yeah, I had oneitis once.
I know this sounds counterintuitive, but forget about that girl for now... I'm just gonna take a guess and say that you aren't so good with women... The skill required to pick up that special girl and go all the way with her... well it doesn't come overnight...
You need to practice on dozens and dozens of other girls in order to gain the needed skill, and then return to the girl you want.
Go here:
newbie-faq-introduction-to-pua-vt44144.html
Read carefully the entire thread.
There is a list of pick up literature, that can educate you a lot. But that alone is far from enough but everyone starts off like that.
Send me a PM if you have questions.