so i work as a personal trainer at the gym..i often get accused of being a player just because i work with alot women and know alot people.

girls say im too good looking to be single so i must be a player (which im honestly not..i dont date more that one girl at a time)

anyways i just tell them i get accused of that just because im a trainer and i havent found anyone i want to settle down with..

any other suggestions? im sure u guys have been accused of the same thing at one time or another..what did u say so that they will actually trust u and want to get to know besides listening or believing everything they hear??

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I'm abit drunk SPAM.. So don't hate me

But, i normally just tell 'em that people often don't bother getting to know me, and that it makes me really sad, because it's unsensitive and it hurts my feelings blablabla (if u allready got attraction with the girl, and acctually want a relationship)

If you just wanna play her i'd just play it direct and say (in a jokingly way) "hell yea babe! wanna go fuck? I'm suuuch a player oh yea! (insert a cheesy pick up line here)" And just joke it away

being called a player is not always a bad thing / most women want to change that so they are more attracted or dont care either way, I used this the other day when getting called out... Im not sure where I read this but it was somewhere on here and they're were a bunch of classy come backs - Im not taking any credit for this because it was another pua but give props cause you know who you are.

Response 1: Player? like sports or something? Cause Im more of a chess guy myself.

Response 2: Player ay? well I hope its something macho cause I like to think of myself as a bad ass even though im not (self depricating humor here)

Classic approach -
I dont know where you heard that but okay, then move on just escalate the convo!

Good Luck!

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ive actually came back with
im more of a sports player...
but this one girl is like idk bout u...u seem like a player and i came back with you act more like a player so that all the attention is not on me and that u could classify anyone as a player..

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I'd just play it off dude and challenge.

"Totally! Pimpin aint easy, right? And seriously, it'd be cool as fuck if there was a girl cool enough to lock me down...6 million down and I've yet to find her."

Ive already posted this on the forum before (credit to my friend who made this up himself)

Girl Your such a player

HimIm a reformed man , i can proove it to you , watch take me home and i promise i wont have sex with you .

delivery is so important on that line

This girl accused me of that last night in text.

Her: are you a player?
Me: if I was would you not love me anymore?
Her: I still would

And at that point we still barely knew eachother.

-Vallon

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Being called a player is a compliment. Unless she says, "I'm not doing anything with you, you're just a filthy man whore," just take the compliment and keep doing what you do. Girl I'm working on told me she thought I was a nice boy at first but now realizes I'm a bad boy and that must be why she's so hot for me. Feels good not to be mistaken for the nice guy. It's important that a girl knows you're the kind of guy that pulls the trigger.

Iv been called a player many a time, and i always say the same thing to the woman.. A player in ur eyes is somebody that lies to a woman to get sex, somebody that will screw u over. I dont need to lie to u to get u in my bed, i will tell u now that u will get no more from me than orgasms and sticky sheets, i will not call u in the morning as i have a girlfriend. I should be with her tonight but i fancey a change of scenery. i interupt and say in a steady confident voice... I may have a girfriend, it may be cheating in the eyes of many that arnt here, that arnt feeling this passion, but right now im gonna go with my natural instincts and ... This is when i grab her by the hips and pull her in for the kiss. This routine has worked wonders for me at my workplace, iv got a real reputation for fucking the staff and married customers and almost cockblocked myself until i came up with this, although this is only a snippit. -DanReborn

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I didn't read all the responses. So I'll just respond to the OP.

It doesn't matter.

None of those questions matter.

If you know a girl for a short time, don't take any questions she asks you very seriously. If you want to, just say genuinely "I'm not a player" that is of course you aren't a player.

I've been accused of being a player/slut/manwhore/womanizer/misogynist on more than one occasion. In fact I met this girl on the bus a few days ago, and she started giving me some bullshit and said "oh you are a bit of a 'Casanova' aren't you?" "why?" "I was on the bus a few weeks ago, and I saw you getting some other girls number..what happened with her?"

I just replied something like, oh she just used me for sex then never called me back...I felt so crushed, I'm not sure if I can ever love again..you won't do that to me will you?

after that I shrugged it off and ended up getting her number and eventually fucking her.

Long story short: who cares if you're a player, who cares if you're not.

I’d be like jokingly- “really? Wow... that’s one of the nicest things anyone has ever said to me. I think you’re a pretty good..ssssss. cool..... too! ..”

She will probably think you are little offended and have higher values when it comes to those concepts or misconceptions. Or she will be like huh?

You can continue with- “that was close I almost said the ..S.. word.”
If she’s with the program
HB: what slut?
PUA: socialite!..(delivered in one of those where have you been? you’re so early nineties voices) That’s the feminine term for player. Isn’t it?
You can go into a big debate about double standards and the objectification of good looking men. (But, take the debate too seriously)

You can continue with this thread only if she finds it cocky and funny or you will look like a FAG!

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HB: "So, you're a player huh."
You: "Hell no, you do know that you're the only one for me on the face of the planet?"

Make sure you sound cheesy. =)

all good responses...don't know which one to use hahah think it just depends on the girl and situation..

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I know this is an old thread but I'm running into the same problem... I go to the gym 5 days a week 206 pounds and under 10 % body fat.. I get called a player a lot! My usual respond no I'm the other P, called picky.. but I've notice most of the ones I like end up going cold because they get jealous because they see all the girls I talk to and instead of wanting to compete with them they opt out of the game.. I've realized that jealousy plot lines only work on high self esteem 9's and 10's or in the club when they have high self esteem... otherwise it blows out my sets every time.. they will go cold and still show ioi's but the get coy and seem like the interest is combined with discouragement... so in know now to be more care full with my day game... but how do you revive the situation when they are discouraged and go cold?

This is such a great question to be asked. It means she's attracted to you and gives you so much opportunity to respond.

My personal favourite is the Gambler response:

"Yeah of course." Very matter of factly look her in the eyes, serious face. Wait a second then start laughing.

Then just tell her the truth.

But it doesn't really matter what you say. Just how you respond.