So a chick I met a few weeks ago was really cool, turns out she works the door at a major bar and weekly nightlife event in my town, she invited me VIP, to come in, not pay, skip the hour line and everything.

This was all good and stuff, as far as hittin that, well, she's got a great body and all that but I'm not for hittin that. She has a nose ring, and it's just not my kinda thing, really cool chick though.

So I drove past these girls near where I was gonna park, in my convertible BMW, these 2 hot ass girls saw me, and were walkin where I was headed. I parked, put the top up and said, "hey, u girls goin' to the hat factory?" they were like "Yeah!......are YOU going to the hat factory?". smalltalk, asked them what they were up to for the night, etc etc.

We get to the venue, there're some 80 people in line, I'd be skipping them all, and not paying. I mentioned I got VIP on some list and one of 'em asked m which list, I read the door girl's txt to me, and she was like "Woooooow!" I mentioned I could prob get people in if I wanted and one was like "well, have a good night!" (they had just met up with a friend of theirs from MIA. They would be in line for a very long time, yet, I would slip right in.

Just after I read that txt I felt the need to show them My "waves crashing" video wallpaper on my iPhone, I don't know why, I had just gotten it and was really excited about it. In RSD terms u could say I "owned my dorkiness" if dorkness is even what u wanna call it.

One girl said that was cool, that was it. I went into the entrance alone, 'nuffield said.

My question is mainly should I have pushed harder to get them to come in with me?or would that have been taken as too needy and, validation-seeking. Because I didn't, they did wait an hour plus to get in and I never saw them again.

I'm not sure what to say about the iPhone thing.

I've been in this game for 3 years and still feel like i'm on a newbie skill level.

I find it even more discouraging that a recent poster said the community is BS and your AA will be back 3 days later even after 5000 approaches.

Did I play it right?

Who ever posted that about the AA is garbage and probably doesnt have a set of balls.

Anyway, you had it going well until the vip list thing. Who was their friend in from mia? Guy or girl?

If it were 3 girls I would have simply stated that they should follow me and they wouldnt have to wait in line. I wouldnt have outright mentioned the vip thing because it seems like you were forcing a dhv which essentially lowers your value because its almost like you were bragging about it even though you really werent.

You are three years in, dont sweat it, I am tow years in and am finally putting the pieces together within the last few months. Its going to take longer for some than others, some fall into good situations, others arent so lucky. Keep trying, dont get down, keep approaching, follow the methods, one day it will clique.

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