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Well explained 870.

Keep it coming cos we can all improve on stuff.

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also, to expand on an earlier point, it really helps to watch more comedy. even shitty sitcoms that you wouldn't watch otherwise, immersing yourself in that stuff would get you into the funny mood before you hit the clubs.

awesome thread, 870!


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Thanks to everybody who has contributed to this thread so far, I think this is a really nice compilation of information on how to be funny. This is going to be the final post I make on this topic, covering the last few points I wanted to touch on. All you guys out there reading, I hope you learned a lot! And thank you for participating.

The Value of Purposeful Misinterpretation

Chances are you have probably already read somewhere that purposely misinterpreting what a woman says as having a sexual context is a very effective method for setting a sexual frame for the interaction. Perhaps you even have some experience under your belt using this technique--if so, awesome! It's also a very valuable method for injecting humor into a set. The application is simple: anything that she says which can be construed as something humorous, do it. Here's an example from a (paraphrased) conversation I had with a girl a few days ago:

Me: Yeah, it's been too long. We'll have to get together sometime!
Her: Well I dunno when it will be, I'm a wanted woman these days!
Me: Really? What did you do?
Her: What are you talking about?
Me: Well if you're wanted it must be pretty serious. Did you kill somebody or something?

Here I have used a touch of innuendo to imply that by "wanted" she meant "wanted by the police." I did this without intending to be funny (alas, my hood-mentality strikes again) but afterward realized just how great of a sequence it was, and of course she laughed hysterically.

A Word About Timing

There are two reasons I saved the discussion on comedic timing for last: 1) because it is the most important aspect of humor, and 2) because it's very difficult to explain in text. Aside from the obvious situations where making a joke about something is inappropriate--serious discussions, funerals, etc.-- there are a plethora of times where using comedy comes off as contrived and drains value from the interaction. The only way to really understand this is to experience it in person. Like anything else, comedic timing must be calibrated in field, so get out there and start making women laugh :)

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I got to see dane cook live and front row at the laugh factory for my birthday and he is amazing. Awesome way of involving everyone there.


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I didn't read all of your posts so forgive me if I'm repeating something.

Paying attention to the sources from which you draw your humor is important.
If you constantly make fun of the things she says it comes across as formulaic and eventually not clever, boring, and even insulting.

There's situational humor.
Where your comment is on a certain situation you are presently in.

There's humor drawn from conversation. [puns, riddles, etc] plays on words, or on the current conversation.

There's humor drawn from your surroundings [I find this funny when done right. Boring when done wrong]

Example: The door to her apartment is unlocked.
you> Do you just keep the criminals out with the honor system?
upping your own joke, miming the criminal> "Knock knock! I saw your door was unlocked and just figured maybe you were home so I shouldn't steal from you right now!"

Ultimately humor is about noticing something, and responding to it in an original way. The best humor ever is a response to your own invention. Willy Wonka style.

And it is true, that the lowest form of humor is sarcasm. [Note: Cynicism, witticism, and satire are different than sarcasm] Sarcasm is the lowest form of humor because it is formulaic, therefore predictable, and only a small negative contribution to a conversation. It usually brings everyone down, and it depresses/ devalues the entire set.

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And it is true, that the lowest form of humor is sarcasm. [Note: Cynicism, witticism, and satire are different than sarcasm] Sarcasm is the lowest form of humor because it is formulaic, therefore predictable, and only a small negative contribution to a conversation. It usually brings everyone down, and it depresses/ devalues the entire set.
Well that explains alot, I use alot of sarcasm and people say I have a big mouth or am a smartass (Not in a good teasing kinda way).

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I think that humour is one of those things that can't be taught in the short-term, but rather acquired and learned over time and exposure. It'll take a long time to sharpen your wit and your timing if you have none to begin with, and it'll take even longer to find the particular sort of humour that you're good at, be it physical, sardonic or angry.


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It's no secret that one of the most powerful tools in a man's seduction utility belt is a top-class sense of humor. When you walk through the club and see a group of girls laughing hysterically and one guy in the middle of the group with a knowing smirk on his face, you can bet he's not only going home with at least one of them but the others are like jelly in the palm of his hand for as long as he can continue that vibe. Laughing is addictive. Everyone loves to do it, and they love the funny people who are so talented at making them by extension.

In spite of this knowledge, there is a severe lack of information on exactly WHAT is funny. I have decided to rectify that situation, so put the kids to bed, pop some popcorn and settle into a comfortable chair. Since this is going to be obscenely long, I've decided to break it up into several posts, which I will put up periodically here as replies to prevent over-stimulation and encourage people to read the whole thing. This is the first post, an introduction to what I consider the top six types of humor.

Types of Humor

There are literally thousands of different categories of humor, but for the sake of brevity I've only listed what I consider to be the main six. Most of the other genres of comedy are really sub-categories of these main six.

1) High Brow Humor - This consists of jokes that are based on an intellectual understanding of the topic, which is usually of a very specific and cultured nature. A good example are those shirts that read "Bad grammar makes me [sic]."

2) Low Brow Humor - Comic content that is low-brow is generally based around pain--physical or emotional-- and is more or less universally understandable, hence the popularity of TV shows like Jackass and movies like Meet the Parents.

3) Imaginative Humor - My personal favorite type of humor, this involves heavy exaggeration and a constant playful tone. This occurs when you point out the guy in the corner of the bar who looks like he's seen too many happy hours and suggest that he probably goes home and puts on nylon stockings and high heels and re-enacts conversations with his mother in a dark, sparsely decorated apartment in the bad part of town.

4) Angry Humor - This type of comedy is also based on heavy exaggeration, but the subject matter is more specific: whatever it is that pisses you off. Everybody gets irritated by little things in their lives--we're human, and nobody is immune to it. But where most people simply blow off or ignore that which annoys us, the angry comic emphasizes these topics and never hesitates to let anyone know how they feel about it, usually in overly-dramatic terms. The comedian Louis Black and the internet celebrity Maddox ( http://maddox.xmission.net ) are two classic examples of this type of humor.

5) Parody - Life is ridiculous, and people enjoy having this ridiculousness pointed out in fun ways via the parody. Examples of this are everywhere: the Naked Gun and Airplane movies, Powerthirst, any song by Weird Al Yankovich, 50% of the jokes on Family Guy, Chappelle's Show and any other TV show worth watching. Parodies are always funny; the downside is they are rather hard to gracefully introduce into real-life situations.

6) Innuendo - This is loosely defined as the ability to suggest something is related to something else without being obvious or overbearing. The often-repeated phrase "That's what she said," if a bit over-used, is a great example of innuendo.

I hope you enjoyed this introduction. In the next post, I'll discuss how to implement these comedic archetypes into social situations. As always, any comments, additions, objections, and whatever else are more than welcome.

To be continued ...

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Where did you learn this? Also any recommendations on books or any other resources where I can learn to be funny?

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I learned it by living, experiencing and taking note of things along the way. If you read this thread in its entirety (I posted several articles here), you will have a pretty complete view of the basic concepts of humor. From there, you really just need to get out and try things until you find something that works and fits your personality.

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Is it really possible to learn to be funny? I mean at the moment, I suck at being that 'funny guy' :(


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Is it really possible to learn to be funny? I mean at the moment, I suck at being that 'funny guy' :(
Yes, it definitely is.

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interesting cool stuff bro thanks appreciate it


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great post!


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Great post! bumping it cause it definitely is one of the key factors to the game.
Here's some more sources for anyone still interested in developing their humor.
http://uncyclopedia.wikia.com/wiki/Uncy ... ust_Stupid
http://www.apa.org/monitor/jun06/formula.aspx

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Great post! bumping it cause it definitely is one of the key factors to the game.
Here's some more sources for anyone still interested in developing their humor.
http://uncyclopedia.wikia.com/wiki/Uncy ... ust_Stupid
http://www.apa.org/monitor/jun06/formula.aspx

thanks man!

i love the Uncyclopedia,i think some master troll got this site runing :D

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