Hey guys,

Just recently started following the world of PUA, read a couple of books etc. Recently I met a girl at a party. Got her # and 2 weeks later met her up for drinks. This was about 2 nights ago. It went pretty well, used some material on her, and kino, with leg touching hand caressing etc. At the end of the night walked back to her place and went up, made out with her for awhile and eventually left since she had work the next morning.. (the decision to leave was mine, wanted to show i wasnt desperate).
Anyway, at the end of the night she told me to text her when i got home.

Me: Tell fluffy (her dog) i made it home. that was fun. Hopefully next time you wont hav to work the next morning.
Her: Fluffy slept well knowing you got home safely. Thanks for the fun night.



In general, our texts r pretty stright fwd, shes not very expressive in her texts.

My question was where do I go from here? what is the rule about how many days to wait before texting her again? How do I get the texting to be more playful and flirty? And what should i do to make sure i get another shot?

Thanks for any responses guys.

GQ

Sounds all good so far! They say it's a couple of days but there is no harm in sooner, just make sure it's not all the time and the reply time is irregular.

Start a text convo with something like:

- How's my little brat doing?
- I bet my weekend can beat up your weekend
- Knock Knock
- Out of all the (first name) (last names)'s I know, i think your my favourite...
- Guess what?!

To get her on another date i suggest you say something like "There's this really cool place called (whatever it is, bar/club/theme park/shop) that i soo want to see, how about you come with me? Thursday or Friday?"

let me know if you need more help with this and good luck!

Jamie Cole
GetmetheGirl

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Depends how you left it with her and what the situation is. Also, if you find she is a keen trigger happy text messager then you dont always have to be that short with your text msg content as well as have such a long response time. As long as she is also initiating text convo's youre normally doing ok. Try to always write less than her (especially if she writes you a 500 char short story!). And make sure you are ending the convo more often than she does.

Getmethegirl = some gd tips there.
Personally it sounds like this girl is pretty into so although the moment may have passed, i wouldnt txt her..! Reverse the situation: if ur comfortable enough to invite someone bk to your house after a 1st date, take them upstairs, make out, and then THEY leave.. ur goin to txt them!! They are the one who is left wanting more.
Its already done now, but I try and avoid words like 'hope' 'hopefully' and 'maybe' cause it can be a bit DLV as ur playin the ball into her side of the court.
Sounds like ur doin alrite tho my friend. Good.
CLB

Things seem to be going well.

However.

Just a note on using the text routines... make sure that their style isn't incongruent with your personality. Otherwise it comes off as weird.

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Hey guys,

Thanks for the replies, def appreciate it. We did re initiate texting this week and she has been texting me on her own as well. Looks like we are going to meet up this Friday again. So its looking good. Its funny how ending the texts first has that effect of them wanting more, I never used to do this in the past, but am definitely making more of an effort to be in control and it works wonders. Il keep you guys posted and thanks again for the valuable advice. If you have any more advice feel free to drop some msgs.

GQ