Hi Everyone

I'm new to this forum and wanted to introduce myself. I was having no luck with women and my friend told me to read the game. It's how he met his glamour model girlfriend.

After reading it, I realised I am Neil Strauss before his transformation to to style. His own words mirrored my life so closely except I am not a writer. It was scary.

I am going to immerse my self in this world for the next few months to see what it does to me. I really want to understand this world and have fun on the way.

I am based in London and would love to meet some London PUA's to get some advice.

thanks

bob

Hey Bob,

Welcome to the website. I'm sure a lot of PUA's started with the same feelings and thoughts you have right now. I know I did in quite a big part. I know some things came natrually, I just am very insecure about my looks.

What I want to tell: everyone has their background and reasons to be insecure. Reasons not to act they actually would love to act.

As Style said: don't be yourself, be your best self. Live your life with no brakes. Brakes are for vehicles, not for humans. *just realised I bought 2 new bicycle brakes so I just had to make that addition LOL*

Enjoy, have succes, grow and most importantly of all: have fun.

Too bad I don't live in London anymore, used to live in Chelsea and near Barbican/Fabric. Meh I miss that place.

-Steven.

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Hi, I need your female opinion on this...

Sorry that I'm not in London, but, hey, welcome! Best of luck on your journey.

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Don't hate, just dominate.

Thanks guys. I appreciate the support. It's amazing what I am learning at the moment. Met a good friend today who is the biggest alpha male I know. He fits all the criteria for an alpha male but still believes getting a girl by "being yourself". He's slept with over 300 women. He didn't get it when I told him he was playing the game and he did not even know it.

He thinks this is all rubbish. I am not sure he understands how difficult it is for normal guys to pull. I worked with fashion models\dancers (amongst many others) for 10 years and not one looked at me. My body language\face does not give off the right messages for whatever reason. When I ask my closest female friends what's wrong with me... they say nothing is wrong and they can't explain it. I think I know... I'm short and thin..... girls feel I have less value than them... and see me as a lesser man.

I have already started to see a difference. I'm more confident and outgoing. I now need to learn the routines and mechanisms. Anyone can point me to some beginner posts ?