Ok, so I'm pretty terrible at managing dates.

Part of the "problem" is that I meet a few of these women through a small social club. But since the events are advertised on a website any girl can just end up going...

Now honestly in tomorrow nights case it was my own stupidity. I hit it off (apparently, I was too drunk to tell) with one girl last Friday, then over the weekend set up a couple events. Met another girl yesterday, and since she was planning on going Friday I asked her out for drinks first. Only now the second girl just RSVP'd...

I guess I need to convey that I'm looking for a long term thing, but don't want to limit my options after just meeting someone but not sure how I'd do that competently.

And since it's the third time in a row something similar as happened... I think I need some advice on how to broach the subject early on.

Anyone?

If you want to keep your options open, you could keep her as an FB, though if you really want a girlfriend, you'll have to discuss with her how she would feel if you were seeing other women as well. It depends on the girl.

If she says no, I would highly recommend you picking one or the other. You can always carry on MLTR's with none of them knowing about each other, but it's a terrible idea.

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