| June 7
This might seem strange to some of you, but today I my goal was not to get a ton of number closes, but to try not to get no more than 2 number closes. Usually what happens when I go out is that I get so amped up and excited from doing approaches that I have a hard time stopping. I end up spending too much time in the field and getting myself too tired when I have other things to do. So today I wanted to limit my time and try to go for not more than 2 number closes.
After work I just headed down to the supermarket near my house. The supermarket is near a major train station so there are tons of girls walking around there. There was one point where there were 3 HB10's around me and I couldn't decide which one to approach. Finally I decided to approach the hottest HB10, but she had already walked past me (and had given me a look). So I turned around and tried to catch up and walk ahead of her (as to not approach from behind), but she was walking really fast, and when I finally got ahead of her she turned a corner and I lost her.
I then get an email from a hot MILF I picked up in May. She tells me she can meet me and she'll be there in 15 minutes. As I'm walking back to where my bike is parked a smoking hot MILF wearing a low cut shirt showing some incredible cleavage and tight fitting jeans walks past me. I stop her in her track and do my usual opener. My opener doesn't work so I just go direct and say, "Okay, well to tell you the truth I just wanted to talk to you..." She then nervously looks back at her car and says, "My daughter is waiting in the car there". I then said thank you and ejected.
Never been in that situation before, but it occurs to me now that she was willing to be number closed, she just didn't want to do it in front of her daughter. I should have told her I would meet her around the corner so I could number close her there. I'm still in anguish that I let that hot ass MILF slip away!
With only a few minutes to spare, I walked on to an area where there were less people. I saw an HB7 walking towards me, but we met right in the middle of the street (of a crosswalk). I've never opened a girl right in the middle of the street. I knew it was an awkward place to open so I compensated by showing extreme confidence. After I got the open going I just walked to the other side of the street and she followed me there. See how I did that? I just took her into my reality. My reality was, "I'm talking to you in the middle of the fucking street and I don't give a crap if a car comes because I am fucking planted here and believe 100% in what I am doing". And she bought it.
As I've stated before, my opener is not perfect, and she was able to give my a quick answer (which 90% of the girls aren't), so it kind of blew my chance to build rapport. Without having built much rapport I just went straight for the number close and to my surprise she showed no resistance. After the number close I tried to build more comfort with some more back and forth questions and then gave her a time restraint and left to meet my MILF date.
My MILF date was incredible. She said she only had 20 minutes to meet so here's how I planned it: Meet in front of the library, go on a walk in the park. On the way to the park pass by my place. Tell her I need to grab something. Invite her in just for a second (get her psychologically used to my place). Kiss close, go to the park, Finish date.
I did everything I planned and the kiss close was hot and heavy. Even though I number closed this girl 3 weeks ago and have been texting her almost every night, the actual time that we spent together before the kiss close was about 30 minutes (the day I number closed her plus the time it took to walk from the library to my place).
I've been playing the game so hard recently and most girls play back, that's why you've got to have good game, so that you can beat them at it. But I've realized that there are some girls who don't "play" the game. They just wear their heart on their sleave and what you see is what you get. The MILF I k closed tonight was one of those girls. I had been running game on her, but now I realize I don't need to do that as she is a genuine person who simply is attracted to me and doesn't hide her feelings behind tons of psychological bullcrap. Meeting this kind of person is a relief for sure.
I'm going to add a number close I didn't tally from June 6 to my June 7 total. In that case I gave the girl my number and she texted me back later.
Number Close: 2
June Total: 19
Dates: 3
K Close: 2
F Close: 0
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