I'll try to make this short. Last night I met up with a girl I had number closed in May. When I number closed her that night in May she just looked ordinary as she was coming home from work. We had good vibes, talked for a long time and the number close was easy.

So we ended up meeting again last night to walk her dog in the park. We arrive at the decided meeting place. BA BLAAAM! She is all dolled up. She's got her tits hanging out, make-up on, eyes all dolled up and pretty and is wearing some kind of perfume that is getting me hornier by the minute. She is super friendly and is giving me green lights all the way in terms of verbal IOI's.

Our 20 minute walk turned into an hour and a half. We had such good rapport and I was so fricken turned on by her physically. So as we went out separate ways I just went in for a casual kiss close. I got totally shut down. I was fucking perplexed as hell. First she said that she was embarrassed to kiss in public (Most girls are here in Japan). So I walked with her into this side alley where there were no people and went for it again very smoothly, first drawing her in by holding her hand... I mean I am a fucking master at K-closing so my technique was not an issue. She dodges again.

Finally she tells me that she has a boyfriend. Not only that but she says she loves him so much, blah, blah,blah.

So what the fuck??

This girl comes to meet me in her "fuck me" clothes and is giving me IOI's out the ass and then tells me that she is a traditional type girl and loves her boyfriend so much when I go for the k-cloze.

I played it off casually and we left on good terms with me still showing a lot of confidence and that's how it ended.

Where do I go from here?

not enough attraction, straight for comfort? thats my guess

OR maybe shes one of those that has trouble with her bf so she hits on you, gets validation, and then goes back to bf. in which case stay away

im eager to hear everyone else's opinion too

It seems to me that this girl is just one who wants every guy's attention on her. I know several of these girls, and they are very misleading.

Reminds me of my last GF, wants attention and validation near enough every minute of everyday. I say fuck them, they should be validating to you aswell, don't give her the time of day, let her chase you if you still wanna close.

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Thanks guys. Your comments are very supportive and I think you are all right. I have been with a lot of girls that have boyfriends or husbands, and usually they cheat pretty easily--sad but true. And yeah, I don't want to expend my energy on this girl even though she got me really worked up sexually from the way she dressed that night. What a little fucking cock teaser. I will stay away and let her work for it if she really wants it. That's the best advice I think.

If she is really young then she was probably just playing a game like the other posters said.

If she was older than about 25 then there just wasn't enough attraction.