School has just finished, and it's a sad time for many. Alot of people are filled with regrets, not really making the connection with someone whom they take a fancy to, and now it's too late, they will forever live with the hint of regret of what could've been- or is this really the case?

My friend recently stumbled, blindly drunk, to a girl that hes liked for a good few years, but never had plucked up the courage to do anything about it. It was during the leaving ball, and he blurted out that hes always had a thing for this lady. The next day he apologises to for what he said to her on msn... stupid really.

I find this subject a very difficult one for anyone (PUA or not) to handle, because it is not merely about "picking up" a girl they find attractive, but they really wish to develop a strong relationship with them.

Due to whatever reason it may have been, maybe the crowds that you hang around in, or your lesson timetables- you sometimes just dont have a chance to talk to this person as much as you want to. And of course, arguably, any good PUA wouldnt have left it till the last minute to break this news to them. It's also nerve-racking because it seems like it's completely out of the blue, and the impression the girl has of you isn't exactly the best.

But either way, I'd like to hear all your thoughts on what would be the best and most successful way to tell a high school crush that you're interested, and have always been interested, in them and would like to get to know them more.

I feel you man. This one's kinda tough. Before my PUA days I tried to do this once and completely fucked it up. Luckily, I recovered from that, and am now pretty good friends with this person (never got laid though, I admit).

I think the best route is simply direct game. Most of those posts are in the "Natural Game" section.

Honestly though, saying the whole "I'd like to get to know you better" sounds kinda AFC, and even though it worked for Style that one time, it probably won't work in this situation. Just get their number, and then chill with them and talk with them. You don't even have to tell them that that's what you want to do, just do it.

Good luck.

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