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problem: you get the girls number, you talk to her, you overly text her (always to get the last word in), realize you made a mistake because you shouldnt have been overly texting to begin with. you freeze her out for a while/cancel plans because youre now trying to make up for the fact that maybe you do have other women to meet. now she might get angry as to why you stopped texting her or she realizes that youre an idiot and you just fucked everything up.

solution: if you really dont have other girls in your life and you like this girl because deep down inside you are still kind of an AFC, at least pretend that you have plenty of other girls. Imagine that you are a busy man, stop being an idiot in the beginning so that you dont have to "make up" for it later.


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problem:: you get the girls number, she obviously likes you, but you are still thinking how to DHV myself, should i text her in 1 day / 1 hour or 2 days / 2 hours. should i pay for her? should i not pay for her? should i --

solution: STOP...fucking...thinking..so much. ill start by assuming that hopefully you can tell whether a girl likes you. if she already likes you, there is nothing more that you need to do, text her whenever you want (just not too much unless shes texting you a lot) , pay for her shit , youre not some new age pussy thick framed glasses hipster. you are an old school man that respects women and knows how to treat them and please them (at least pretend you do if you dont) take her and show her the fucking time of her life. i wont tell you how, figure it out for yourself.

im tired of typing for now, ill add more later if you guys want them. oh and trust me there are plenty more

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"...so it goes"

Definitely been there. Thanks for putting it into words.

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Do not text alot, first of all it's fucking annoying to see someone texting all the time.
And it's even more annoying if you're the one texting all the time.
You're a busy man, who doesn't have the time to pointlessly text message all the time.
Be concrete but funny, convey personality, set up a date and keep something to talk about.
DONT PAY FOR HER SHIT, if she likes you you're still not there yet. It's just the beginning.
Sure, you respect her and you treat her good.
But first she needs to respect you! And you'll won't get respect if you start buying small gifts or paying her food immediately.
She just 'likes' you and conveyed interest, you're a possible boyfriend to her.

She is not your girlfriend, you have no reason to pay for her stuff. You áre showing interest and you are flirting and you want to keep attraction & comfort growing and growing.
You'll have to live an interesting life, if you're not a busy man. Become one.
Take drum or piano lessons you've always wanted to take.
Start writing down that short movie concept you came up with. Start filming it.
Do learn for school when you need to, because nothing is more attractive then a serious guy, who stands above 'school is lame, i hate school, hahaha, I dissed my teacher today, haha I don't need to learn for this shit, it's stupid' and it will only improve your interest and development.
Do take these dancing or fighting classes you wanted to take.

Thats how you're gonna live a happy and interesting life, in wich a girl would love to be part of.

I'm tired too

this is the guy, Real! (dd student if i'm not mistaken)
don't get tired! there's a lot more waiting in the corner

I guess we'll have to agree to disagree on the paying. Many people say it's stupid to pay, but as long as you portray yourself otherwise as a confident man, she shouldn't think you're easily stomped on because you paid for her date, if anything I feel it shows her you're financially stable.

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?? what does this nonsensical phrase mean

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"...so it goes"

Honestly I think if your game is truly tight, you won't need to text her. She'll text you.

That's how it is for me anyway. I almost never send the first text and girls almost never shut the fuck up. The last girl I gamed texted me all day for 4 days straight. I gave her hints all day that I'm busy and waited an hour or two between answering after a while and she didn't feel the need to stop lol.

She was an extreme case but most girls are like that to a lesser degree.

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Don't think you are, know you are.

Is texting that important? I fawking HATE texting.

I don't have time for it, and it seems like once you text them, they never stop. They want to have whole conversations by text, it annoys the hell out of me.

I'll return up to 3 texts, but after that I'm done.

Only time I'll initiate a text is for something that doesn't really require a reply, like "Hey, great seeing you last night, I'll talk to you later".

The last few girls I've dated, I can't even remember how many times I've looked at my phone and yelled "stop fawking texting me already!!"

are you a pua? real? why ask nonsensical question? ask your 7th grade neighbor what that phrase mean, you can get answer in 5 seconds flat

Yeah i tend to be very firm on these rules, but when i find that i like a girl more than the others i begin txting her more often and leaving the other girls out to dry. Which fucks me over in the long run.

[quote="Bo_Darville"]
The last few girls I've dated, I can't even remember how many times I've looked at my phone and yelled "stop fawking texting me already!!"[/quote]

If she sends a good text you can easily respond to ok.
My ex sent me a msg before we were through on a friday when i was leaving the gym that said,
her:"whatcha up to?"
me:"just left the gym, you?"
her:"just being lazy watching TV, i bought a flat screen for the [bed]room"
me:"I dont believe you, prove it"
her:"I guess you'll have to come see then, the doors unlocked ill be waiting"

I showed up, walked in, she was [pretending?] asleep.. I spoke no words, took my shirt off and jumped on top of her.. phenomenal sex..

she told me how great she felt all day on text, then ignored my call for 3 days..

if i had a do over.. i would've waited for her to call me..

a lot of shit had gone down in that relationship by then though..

really though, if she asks a question that requires a 45 page response, wait until you're not busy and call when you only have 10 minutes to chat then you're not lying when you have to get off the phone because you have a legit reason.

When you're busy in life, you dont need to pretend to miss calls and call them back in a few minutes.. you can just tell the honest truth that you were running in a burning orphanage to rescue 25 kids, and she cant give you shit..

but, if you do your best to "never complain, never explain".. you can calibrate yourself to not feeling like you owe people shit.. most of the time, you dont and it seems women and people view excessive explanation as "apologizing"