i go clubbing alot.. and dont get me wrong club girls are fun and all that but there is girl i am really attracted too

background info**

when i go clubbing i always see the same girl(not the target) i was at a house party on new years and we were wasted playing pong and for some reason she was the fuckin shit at pong... i had alot of fun with her but didnt know her name or anything else for that matter.(drank to much dont remember) i dont talk to her at all. unless its at the club.. then of coarse i dance with her etc etc.. to make the story short she graduated this year her sister(target) graduated in 2001. her sister is 26.. but for some reason works at a fast food restaurant.. (i have no clue why) she is single and she is atleast a 10.. if not 13.5.. i was at the fast food restaurant. she took my order and i was thinking in my head.. she looks like someone i know. while i was eating some guys asked if she went to the local hs she replied yeah in 2001 but her sister graduated this year and maybe they are confused between the two. they agreed and she exited the place cuz her shift was over.

heres my dilema


1. there is a big age gap. i am 19 she is 26

2. the only time to see her would be at the fast food joint cuz she lives in mckinny

3. i dont know how to approach her since fast food place is only place i have to game her.

everything i know about this girl is through fb stalking. i talk to her sister maybe once per week but only as a friend as i am not attracted to her

whenever i see her sister she is either wasted rolling or barred out and i dont think i can use her to gain access to her sister.

ps. i have been growing my beard for a couple of weeks to make myself look older. cuz when i shave i look like a 15 year old haha..

Hey bro,

I realy hope you got your game together, because it ain't fucking easy to game a 26 year old girl when you are 19.

I'm 19 myself and I also find myself mostly attracted to girls around 20-25. But man gaming these girls can be pretty frustrating. Especially when they are 10's.
On the first hand they usualy feel elevated above you, so your game must be pretty solid to break that.

There are a few things that realy help in order to get these girls;

You live a far more interesting life then she does.

You are as mature as they are.

You have friends around the same age as they are, and these friends respect you, because of what you do. ( your passion for music making, or your craft in something)

The friends that aint that age are as mature as these girls aswell.

Be friends with, and have respect from her friends.

You got your shit together and you know what you want.

Have alot of confidence and self esteem

If you got alot of things that I mentioned, then you're having a good chance. Unless your game is total shit of course.


When you are going to throw game on her make sure;

You're in a good mood

You've had a good night sleep.

You look well broomed

And it helps if you recently had some activitys you are exicted about.
So when the topic 'what have you been up to lately' you talk exicted and spontanious.


Make sure when you are going to game her that it's not a busy day so you can talk with her without getting disturbed.

Here is what I would do.

I'll enter the place early (so it won't be busy) with a smile (be guinely happy about something) walk up to her because you want to order.

She will notice your smile, I would tell her; Aaah I'm so happy, I had this awesome weekend, it feels like I'm on a vacation, but it's just 2 days!
Ah and now I woke up and I felt like having a (thing).

She will ask what flavor or what kind of thing you want.

Uhmm, what do you recommend, have you ever tried any of these things? Or do you see it so much that you get sick of it, haha.
(it's important that give off that vibe, that you are enjoying life soo much by yourself, because that is something they can look up to.)

Order the thing.

Tell her you can see she has done it lot's of times, and that you appreciate the oh so fucking incredible service she gives you. (smile smile, make fun)
(something to fall back on when she her the next time)


Now you enter the risk zone, because any time someone can walk in and order something so you can't continue your convo.

When someone interupts from here, just say thank you! I'll be coming back for more!

When noone interupts you talk about what you did this weekend wich made you feel that way.

Ask if she had done something besides working in a fast food restaurant.
If she wears some lame fastfood cap, ask her if she can tell you where she bought that cap.
Because you want to take a picture of your dog wearing a cap and that might be the funniest cap you've ever seen. (you know the drill, neg neg)
Basicly neg her about the fact that she works in a fastfood restaurant, i mean wtf? (26??)

Talk about stuff, stuff that makes you happy, makes alot of jokes about it.
Refer jokes back at each other.
Be spontanious, fun. Have a blast by yourself, make her feel like you talked to her just because you wanted to talk to someone

Then say you gotta go, because you have things to do.

Thank her for her absolute beautifull and professional service (overdo it so that your joking) and that you will come back some some more.


During the convo you keep analysing her.

Is she confident?
Does she flow with your conversation?
Does she get shy because of you?
Does she smile back alot?
Does she laugh about the negs you drop her or does she get insecure of it?
Does she show interest? etc.

Try and adapt and calibrate to that.

Most of the time you neg 10's more, but a with the age difference you neg her even more then usual 10's. DO ANALYSE if she can handle those negs and calibrate.

You want to be very carefull throwing in routine DHV stories, because that can come off super lame. Even if the stories are true! These girls will feel like you are trying to impress them by some lame story.

So you DHV yourself by beeing very happy in life, by telling her you had this awesome weekend wich makes you feel very nice.

(within the story of your weekend you show that you have a interesting life)

Your lucky you dont have to open a 5 or 3 set with this girl. Imagine 3 guys 2 girls (including target) all beeing around that age.

I think the fact that you look like a 15 year old if you dont shave is pretty shit.
I have the luck that I look like a 20-23 year old, but with a tight game it shouldn't matter.


If you have done everything succesfully, you left the impression that your a very cool confident guy. Who isn't licking her arse.
And she will also link 'happy' with your smile.
So the next time she will see you, convo will go much smoother and she will smile, just because that feeling is linked with you.

Now off course this is a way, how I would do it. And I hope you can use this as an impression or that this will give you some insight into gaming her.
And then, this is just the beginning.

I would not number close the first time you do this, because you need to convey more personality at first.

Good luck bro!
zendelo

There you go! Zendelo's advice was top class! pretty much walks you through it! i wouldnt neg her job too much though as there is probably a reason she is there at 26 and could be a sensitive subject!

Thx, you are probably right about it beeing a sensitive subject.

But on the other hand, by negging her on that subject.
She will feel she is beeing qualified and wants to prove that she is more then just a 26 year old working in a fastfood restaurant.

She can be insecure and have low-selfesteem because she works there tough, matter of analysing her an calibrating.

yea i was kinda unsure if i should neg her on her job. when the guys were asking her about the year she graduated she seemed like she didnt want to tell them because it would reflect on her age.. and then her job... she sort of hesitated and smiled out of embarrassment and ended the conversation with them after that.

i know for sure she usually opens in the morning because my buddy who usually eats breakfast there always sees her in the drive through window.. but thats another problem.. if she is at the drive through how am i going to game her.. lol

Why must everything be so technical with you guys. You assume a set of things that may not happen.

Basically her facebook should tell you what you need to know about her personality. So you should use it to your advantage. Mention things that she likes and bam! conversation opener.

You will be talking whilst she works so you are going to have to be quick and then end with "jheez i really have to go and there are some pretty hungry looking people behind me so maybe we should continue this conversation later." Pretend you are walking away then turn back and say "Do you have a phone?" She will most probably say yes and then you say with total confidence "What's the number?"


It may not go exactly like I detailed above but you can't keep admiring her from afar.