what to do in a girl's birthday? she is a girl i actually like a lot...and we have a good conection
i was thinking that a simple text message would do the trick, maybe in a random hour of the day...
or u guys think i could call her like at mid-night?
i think that would show to much interest of me into her...anyway if i go simple with it she will get dissapointed, but i dont think thats bad either. what u guys think?

Explain what you've got going with her so far

well... i have been with her like 3 times, i have done some good kino but i didnot have kissed her yet...i have a hard time kissing girls who i really think are worth it

Ok, you've been with her 3 times..

You have seen her once a year or w hole weekend?
Did she kino you back?
Did she show interest in you?
What kind of IOI's did she give?
What mistakes do you think you've made with her?
How do you think she feels about you?

Cmon, you're giving not much info to work with.

But assuming you've had good kino the times you saw her.
I think she might have interest in you.

Text her like any normal person would, text her between 12:00 and 18:00 wishing her a happy birthday. Ask if she is going to give a party.
If she does, meet her there.
If she doesn't, then just see how to convo goes. You could probably ask her if she doesn't want presents or w/e

DONT TEXT AT 00:00!!!! Then you will show too much interest and it will be a turn off.

well i think i first saw her around 3 months ago....so i saw her like once per month, but maybe more... i think i might start to see her more often since college just ended.
yes she kino me back since the first time she saw me. she gives me great hugs everytime i see her and little kiss's and we also a lot of hands contacts.
i think she shows interest, she is always seeing what i am doing, like once we where at a party and she was always stiking her nose in my conversation with her friends and asking for attencion, she does lot of eye contact.
the mistakes i think i have made is to not move forward as fast as i should and to sometimes show to much interest, wich i have learned to stop now. i think i have not been with her enough too, since i know her for quite a long time now.
i think she feels like i am quite the really nice guy who could make part of her life, but i must be carefull not to be as a friend... i must see her quite soon as get to kiss close, we need more sexual tension betwen us.
oh and she gives me a lot of compliments about my hands, my ass, how good i look...so i think she also feels an physical atraction!

i think she might have interest but i must get things going fast i think...
and i really think u are right...i must be normal so she does not take me as any other guy...
thank for the adive =D any other suggestions are just wellcome, this is a girl i really dont want mess up with (ussually when u dont want to mess u just mess up more XD)