I have recently been dumped by my long term girlfriend. She gave me no reason other than she wants "to have a break". Two months later we barely talk, due to her not me, and have not had sex since. I have waited for her to come to her senses, but it has been too long and I suspect she has a new boyfriend, which she denies.

I realise I have been acting desperate and pushed her further away. So I am starting my quest to become a PUA in order to never feel the pain of getting broken up with again. I realise that there is a long and maybe hard journey ahead. But will be worth it.

I am not generally bad with woman, but definitely consider myself an AFC, so I am now going to start from scratch. I could have been considered a nice guy with my girlfriend, but never again!

Shaun

Welcome on board Shaun. The girl you've mentioned, is a lost cause.

When a woman says she needs a break, just take it as an indirect way of " i need space, I don't need you now, I want to explore new options (other men).

Move on, build ample social proof that you're now meeting more women in your life, and her attraction level towards you will inevitably reborn due to jealousy.

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Reading this gives me chills dude...

Im in the exact same situation... she said " i want a break, we need space!" and then was spotted with another dude....

Its time to get your game on son, Ive joined today and I havnt had a screw from another woman yet either...

Like they say...the best way to get over somebody is to get under somebody...its getting there which is the ball ache!

Good Luck bro

Sam

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He who hesitates gets left to masturbate....

WARNING: Becoming a PUA may start off by making you feel even more frustrated than before (possibility of more rejection). If you cannot handle rejection, maybe becoming a PUA isn't for you. Your reason to get into becoming a PUA shouldn't be for the sake of not feeling pain. If you have not already read it, read The Game by Neil Strauss (interesting take on pain, in regards to Mystery).
Assuming you stick with it, and advance to some degree of a PUA, it will be.
Shaun, don't let your ex get to you. I know it sucks now, but wait it out and you'll feel less angry soon. Since I don't know what you want from women, I can only talk for myself, you will want a girlfriend sometime in the future again. So don't go swearing off relationships for good. And what's wrong with a nice guy?

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Manipulation is such a strong word... I prefer persuasion.

Thanks guys! will take all the advice well!