hi there...

ok, i'll keep it short as i can as i feel i'm just making a really rookie mistake here.

background - gaming for approx 1 year, night game is pretty decent, and i get SNL's with ok looking girls on a regular basis (lol - yes you can laugh at that comment), but i'm now looking for something more... i work long hours at work, and get frustrated with the lack of opportunites during day / social circle game - so i tend to focus soley on nightgame.

i've been out for the last two nights and connected with two diff girls on two diff nights and got the same problem... i didnt make out with either, (both were really sweet girls, and not the usualy slutty types that i usually end up with (again - feel to laugh lol, im trying to be honest here) because i wanted to see them outside of the 'club situation'. so i have two problems:

1) during the times that i wasnt hanging out with these girls, my game / state would suffer - i.e. i couldnt exacly run other sets whilst she was still in the venue. (what do i have to gain by proving to here that i can talk/dance with other girls - she already knows i have the skills - and i dont want here to think i'm a player (even though i am grrrr... talk about dilemas lol)

2) i had a hard(ish) time getting contact details from one of the girls.... ("oh all the guys i meet in clubs turn out to be jackasses blah blah") - for this one i finally managed to get an email address... but again, is this just chick logic... guys in clubs who know how to talk / dance with a girl are all players...?

ok, so the question that i really need answering, is: am i just being dumb thinking that i could actually find a 'girlfriend' whilst running nightgame in a danceclub" - or should i just stick to the simple fact that i'm only ever going to find ONS/SNL's etc during night game, and investing like 2+ hours on the same girl in a club is a bad idea, because she will never take me seriously outside in the 'real' world.

day game frustrates me because i could spend hours in a mall etc, and only get 4 or 5 leads... wheras during nightgame, i could get a SNL in only a couple of hours work (i.e. if approach enough girls etc).... i'm looking for a GF now, should i just swtich off night game and start working on day/social circle game more...?

lol. cheers guys - any input would be helpful...
TP