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PostPosted: Sun May 30, 2010 8:24 pm 
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I am 23 years old and have a 2.5 years old son. I am single (I left his mother 2 years ago) and want to get new girlfriends. My son stays 75% of time at his mother and 25% at my home.

Because of my many failures I decided to do something. I've read The Game (by Style), Venusian arts handbook (by Mystery) and some stuff about body language for seduction. Then I went out to pick up women many times and my pick up skills advanced to a much higher level. I am having more and more success in attracting women. But there is one big problem.

Every woman who learns that I have a son, suddenly doesn't want to be with me anymore.
If they learn that I have a son in first couple of hours we meet, they just leave. Instantly.
If I tell them for my son after days or weeks, they say LJBF or something similar and within some hours(or instantly) invent an excuse why they don't want to be with me. More than half of them are even sincere and tell the true reason - because I am a father.
From the moment in which a woman learns that I am a father, she gives me no more IOIs, only IODs. Her body language changes instantly and forever.

The only women that don't run away are the ones who are dating their boyfriends for years and want to have their own children (with their BF). But I prefer not seducing such women.

What to do? This is a thing that can't be a secret if I want to have a girlfriend. I don't want only one-night-stands, but also a girlfriend for some time (but I also don't intend to keep the first one I get for the rest of my life :wink: ).

So what to do? How can I tell this to a woman, that she won't leave me? I can't hide it forever. I am very young a father and from a very conservative country in Europe, but I believe (hope) that there is a way that this won't reppel at least some women.

Do you know any PUA with children, who had success and wrote a book with such techniques?


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PostPosted: Sun May 30, 2010 9:27 pm 
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(This problem is too specific for a book.)

I'd bring this up quite late into the relationship. After several meets, after sex, after some exchange of feelings. Then when you do bring it up, do it in a comfortable situation, and show some vulnerability. Don't have her meet your kid till later, and show that if she stays with you, it does not mean she would have to meet your kid.

If girls leave you when you play it like this, I would be bothered.

Good luck.


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PostPosted: Sun May 30, 2010 10:16 pm 
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Couldn't you use your son. Like bring him to the park and hit on single mothers?


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PostPosted: Mon May 31, 2010 10:25 am 
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I agree with Solomon, you may just need to change your scope a bit. Try looking in some different places. An 18 and up club full of immature party girls may not be the best place. Where a park, museum, college campus, or some other public places may yield better results. You also may want to consider looking for slightly older, better established, more mature women. Although, I have no idea what you are looking for. ZeroValley also made an excellent point. It's always going to be more difficult to just walk out on someone when you have established a relationship and feelings for the person. This may be the extra back-up you need to get them to look past any doubts they may have and give you and your son a shot. All in all, at the end of the day, just find what works for you. No matter what changes you make, if any, I'm confident that sooner or later, the girl has to come along. They are out there, you're just more likely to find them in some places than others. It's only a matter of time before she pops up. Good luck to you brother, I hope you find the one your looking for.

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