I mean sparking attraction is such an exact science (or so I'm learning), so how do so many clearly beta guys manage to wrangle themselves some decent-looking GFs? I've seen couples that completely baffle me sometimes; just looking at the guy, I can see he's a wuss and doing about half a dozen things wrong with every move, and yet his HB8 girlfriend seems to be into him. What gives?

women settle for what they can get. Despite what most guys think, theres alot more attractive single women out there than you think! Back in the day, any time i saw an attractive female the first thing I thought was, "she's probably already taken." Turned out I was completely wrong.

Just look on facebook. I have a bunch of hot women on my facebook and they are single FOR ALONG TIME. I am talking 6+ months here. Thats why its so important to get over your fear of talking to chicks. Just talk to as many attractive women as you can find. Add 'em on facebook, pass up the flakes/prudes and go for those single ones.

Also, just think of all those women out there who are with these losers. Seriously, how much game could some smuck with tattooed up arms who thinks he is cool have? Not much.

don't wry about those guys, they'll eventually get dumped or cheated on

They may have found a formula that is likely to work if you do it right, but attraction is certainly not an exact science.

Maybe you are only paying attention to what they are doing wrong and you should try and look at what they are doing right? What else do they have that is keeping the girl engaged?

-Ridley-

It's funny, but I think every guy starting out has the same exact question, and I had it too.

The answer is really simple: these guys don't sit at home in front of the computer asking other guys why some loser is stealing their girl. They are out there doing it, after years of trial and error, which they don't even notice, but the unconscious does, and it slowly transforms thus guys into naturals.

Plus another very important factor is that if you take out the label, "AFCs" are normal guys who have a life, a lifestyle, on that alone they can attract a lot of girls. And if you take it a notch further, you can label 98% of all actors as AFC, they just have an awesome lifestyle and girls just come to them ..... And think back when you read "The Game" what did Neil realize in the last chapter and started working towards? LIFESTYLE

And remember this, AFC's get more lays and girls than 90% of so called "PUAs" on this forum.... think about that.
So observe thus "AFCs" and LEARN FROM THEM
Cheers

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plus the fact so many guys have that mentality that they must be taken means that they also sometimes don't even get approached.

I was reading maxim and many of the models made points about how they've been single for a while and don't get why guys don't try to talk to them.

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Every Saint has a Past, Every Sinner has a Future

They are not AFC since they do have cute women. We are!

In the beginning (insert name here) created man and woman and PUA. And thus he spake: Thou shalt be the only one to score. Thou shalt sarge and neither man, beast or AMOG shalt ever mate with a female.

And man did not listen since the PUA wasnt there. In fact man was as man was supposed to be and PUA appeared much later like 30 years ago as a result of man spending too much time on stupid crap like building model railroads and playing with their computers instead of being a man.

So man fucked from the beginning of time and didnt stop. Woman liked it because she was the one being fucked.

Loser appeared and saw the error of his ways. He read the holy book of Style and thought that hey Im cool too. But in fact he sucked. In fact he sucked so hard that he had to embrace to teachings of PU just in order to come up to the level man is supposed to be at.

And he promised. One day I shall be an mPUA, and then I will be the king of losers and the equal to any decently skilled and attractive man.

And it was so.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

is there other definition for AFC? is it Average Frustrated Chump? can i get something from frustration?

Because they give that one girl a lot of attention.
Guys like that are 'safe'.
A girl knows that he'll do anything for her and won't cheat or break up.
Girls usually repay the favor with cheating themselves and eventually breaking up with them.
Really, if the girl looks too good for the guy, they don't have a relationship you should be jealous of.

That is some deep shit ma man hahahha, like

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Once again, if you don't mind me asking.

How can they be AFC if they have cute girlfriends?

for men dating is a chore for women sex is a choice- ross jeffries

women will date whats available at that moment whereas the guy goes through all the legwork, all she has to do is say yes where as you have to go through what russell brand calls the 'knobstacle course'

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life sucks and then you die! deal with it