Hey Fellas,

Being in the community here for the past 3 years I have accross a realisation that opened my eyes to a whole new different prespective. I started in the community to find out ways to get that special someone , ended up having threesomes and lays randomly.

Now I have not yet reached my full potential but I came to a point where I realised its time to invest something longterm.

LTR: Long Term Relationship.

Most peeps in the community dont come accross that point very often, and if they did they would tell you to go out and meet women.

Now bringing that point accross , most of the knowledge we get works on girls who are out there meeting guys on random bases with no aim whatsoever to have a LTR. Realisation is to have a golden LTR you need 2 to make it work.

So my question for you is this; How do you find an LTR ?
comments: Dont tell me clubs / Lounges. Girls over there are just blunt

Where do you find an LTR?
comments: as above except Im thinking of hitting daygame more often and expanding my social circle.

thanks guys

I think both of these things are a misconception of PUA. As isn't the whole point of being a PUA is so you are able to pick up girls for one night stands as well getting girls you may be interested in having a relationship with? I know a lot of people tend to think that PUA means getting girls for one night stands. But I would thing a lot if not all of PU would work for getting a girl for a relationship.
Whats wrong with a girl being blunt? Wouldn't you rather have a girl that is up front and honest or a girl that wasn't? I agree going to clubs/bars/lounges are not the best place to find a girl for a ltr tho.
Day game would be your best bet. But don't forget about night time actives/events/etc that take place outside of clubs/bars/lounges. I am talking about things like concerts and sport games. As even tho its night time the whole environment/attitude is different of that of bars/clubs/lounges.

There are the occasions where you might meet that special HB at a club/bar/yoga class, WHERE EVER. Depends on your pick-up skills, and even a bit of luck. What could help you "find" an LTR is to go on a massive PUA spree. X'out the ones who don't appeal to you much and day 3 or 4 the ones who you did have a close connection to emotionally, NOT just sexual. From there see which one your thinking of often. That's a sign, you like her more than just another woman

Good luck with your search.
Cheers, Zennixx.

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isn't that just generalization

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In regards to girls in clubs , yeah you can meet someone "special" in a club , but what are the chances if your looking for a meat your going to look in the meat market and so on.

As for methods and ways for LTR, an MPUA pointed out to me that its a totally different game.

More Mature

If I understand correctly, your question is: where do you find the type of girl you want a long term relationship with / where do you find girlfriend material?
Most people find their LTR at work or in their social circle (friends of friends, hobbies like yoga class). Not saying these are the best places, just that most (non PUA) people find them there. This might also be because their ineptitude to pick up girls at clubs.
You're wrong to think girls at clubs are just blunt and there's no LTR material there. Sure, most of them are bimbos but even nice girls go to clubs once in a while. They'll be standing between those slutty girls you're paying all your attention to

Imagine your perfect girl: the way she acts, looks, speaks, her opinions on various subjects that interest you, her hobbies and where she likes to hang out.

Then, start hanging out at those places.

Your boy,
870

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870:
Nobody could have put it in a better way, now whats really interesting is in regards to having an LTR with a girl an MPUA pointed out to me that its game is different.

With all rules standing still , I beleive that in order to conform an LTR with a girl you have to level up your game to a elevated mature level. No routines No crazy games , No stories.

Its time to man up , work on yourself and be more of a 'man' that you can be.

Some may argue against that , this is fine , but above DHV and routines, above being flirty and all I beleive there is another level