I was walking when I saw this girl dressed in black. I approached her talk to her. Her body language was positive. She was smiling. I asked her questions to know her she told me she is from Toronto that she was here to study French. She said she is from Japan.

It give me 2 times TS she don’t believe that I was looking for a starbucks.

I told her she had great energy and I had to leave and I asked her her phone number. She said she did not. She offered me her e-mail. It's really weird because it's the first time this happened but this girl was quite sure to read my e-mail and that I understand her e-mail. She wrote her name in Japanese. She was very curious and she asked me questions.

She showed great interest.


Two days after I sent the email. I think she response the same day. I offered to meet her. She agreed.







The first meeting :

My plan was:

1 meet her in the cafe

2 go to the store to buy milk and juice. After going home to lay down their purchases and bring a camera. (Multiple venues strategy david deangelo )

3 go to the bar of chicha

4 lead to another bar where we could have fun playing.

5 at the end of the meeting kiss her.



she come early dressed in black. She was wearing makeup and perfume (which shows high degree of interest).

Not everything went as planned. We go to the store to buy milk and juice. After go to my Appa and bring a camera. She doesn’t accept to get in my apart. I played the indifferent.

We go to the hookah bar. We had good time the waitress could not stop looking at us. After about two hours, she tells me: YOU TALK TO MUCH. It's really weird, but at that moment I thought the routine of Mystery: you talk a lot you want to kiss me. I thought she was saying kiss me. So I made the strawberry field routine. I have not quite noticed her face but she did not seem to appreciate that I talk about sex. I wanted to kiss her but at that moment I noticed that his body away from me. It was one of the worst moment in this evening I make her uncomfortable.

We leave the hookah bar and we went to another bar. We took a drink. We played some game after we went out to the terrace. At that time she began to feel sick. I suggested her to go see a movie and she said she could not. Then we went out I went with her to the subway. Before she go to the subway, I try to kiss her. She didn’t accept. I told her that I am trying to share feelings with you. She said that kissing for Asians is something very personal.

I wrote her an e-mail after 2 days to propose to meet again she responded with an e-mail telling me we should be friends and if I wanted to see her again I must not try to kiss her or to have sex.

I reply with email at this time she didn’t reply.

So I thing I make theses mistakes: making her uncomfortable by trying to escalate too early. Talking too much in the date : nervous.

I've heard for Asian girls, you have to build a lot of comfort. If this is your demographic, you better do some heavy research because their values and game are entirely different. There's a guy on here that lives in Japan and closes Japanese girls, you'd want to get with him. It sounds like you know what you did wrong (which is probably right if you're going for a western girl).

After having date with her i just remember i have one book talking about dating asian girl i dont read all but a lot off information in this book are really helpfull like he tell you asian girls like karaoke and they are looking for serous relation not just sex and you need care and afetr meeting her i rememeber we talk about how she like karaoke she ask me if i have car she was looking for my WEEDING line

the book is : How To Date An Asian Woman
but if you do all they give you like advices you will sound like afc or weak in my opinion.