Soo, i need a bf destroyer. The situation is this, my ex has a bf and i would like to show that i am dominant/better than he is.

She still has feelings for me but is also too used to the sense of security he provides i guess.

This isnt oneitis (atleast i hope not) soo what are the most effective ways to lower the bfs appeal in her eyes and higher mine? I just want the satisfaction of getting my way.

thanks in advance.

Talk to a shytload of other girls while you talk to her. If she only likes him because he gives her "security," they are heading for disaster

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its more beause he was around when i wasnt, but yeah, talking to other girls sounds good. lets hope your right tho, disaster for them sounds good to me.

Let me point out a few thinks, about using BF destroyers. Sooner or later those will backfire.

Why would you want to poke in a relationship when there are alot of girls arround the globe whom actually are available.

What makes you so needy of her, she isn't the only female on the globe.

Just my $0,02's.

.WS

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Wesley, i know that what your saying is right, and its the way i should be looking at things but she is (i hate to say it) "different".

could be that shes the first girl i had sex with, or that shes the first girl i actually have feelings for. more than getting over her im looking for some way to get what i had back. as im writing this im realising how needy it sounds. haha

im guessing i should move the fuck on. or just sit back n if they fall apart, slide myself in?

So you just want the satisfaction of ruining a growing relationship? You just want to stoke your ego to make it feel better that you are no longer with her?

Wow you are a big man. With shinning values to boot.

I would suggest a method if it wasn't for self gratification reasons. You have no intention of making her better with this, only self gratification.

Move on. Work on your inner game.

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TheJ to break this down, this guys not for her plain and simple, i dont plan on breaking them up then fucking her off, if they were to break up then obviously id stay by my actions and be the best bf/friend i could possibly be for her.

as i said, this is the only girl ive ever had feelings for, i wouldnt want to be with her if i didnt know for sure that i could give her the best of me. its not for my ego, its because im better for her than he is, she admitts it herself she just doesnt have the balls to break it off.

i may have sounded imature before but, its only because i couldnt be bothered explaining all this as it does kinda make me look weak.

also dont give me that "big man" bullshit, im here for help and helpfull criticisms, not insults. although thanks for the advice, i should work on my inner game.

True we are here for helpfull criticism but I woudn't help someone tht just wanted to destroy a relationship.

Now given your second post, try googling or looking for the Straw man technique (SMT). I remember some posts here and on other PUA forums about it, shoudn't be to hard to find.

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straw man technique seems pretty smart and logical, ive been doing the opposite. time to switch it around and see where it gets me.
i cant express the gratitude, i feel like its the perfect thing to do in my situation.

thanks man, il keep up to date with how it goes.

Careful when using SMT, because an intelligent person will see it as a logical fallacy.

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i can kind of read her, she will think im just beeing nice and mature. hope it doesnt backfire. she goes to china on monday for a week with her uni soo ive got abit of time to think it through carefully lol.