Hey guys.

Ill start right from the beginning.
last sunday was my first attempt at day game. So i'm strolling around the shopping centre, and I see a cute HB 7.5 at a stand selling necklaces.

I asked her to help me find a nice one for my mom as it was her birthday this saturday. so she asks me a couple questions about what sort of stuff she likes... blah blah blah. I then told her I wouldn't be able to decide unless she tried it on.
She giggled and put it on.
while she was putting it on, her co-worker (male obstacle) strted talking to me.
I prommised to get him into the industry I work in and he took my number and facebook.(Me being a leader of men)
she looked weirdly at him taking my number, but I said "Just helping a brother out" and she smiled.

When she looked at me for approval of the necklace she just managed to get on, I scanned her with my eyes and said "wow you look just like a character I am writing about."
She replied "oh really!? what about my personality?
I said" well I don't know yet do I? we just met. How about I ask you a couple questions to see. so I asked her what she hated most about guys and what she loved most about guys.
Her answers were: I hate Guys who are afraid of commitment.
and I love funny guys.
These answers were bound to help me prepare for my day two.
I said "wow you really are like my character!"
[NONE OF THIS IS MADE UP. I REALLY AM WRITING A BOOK. AND IT REALLY WAS MY MOMS BIRTHDAY]

All this while it was impossible for me to kino, as she was too far behind the counter.

I asked her if it would be cool with her if we continued this on Saturday so she could help me develop my character more. she said sure, she would meet me at her stand at one o clock.
So we said our goodbyes and as I was walking back to my friends, she yelled "Don't stand me up"

About 3 hours later I remembered that I had promised my boss I would work on Saturday, I went into a panic.
I rushed back to her stand and luckily she was still there.
She looked disappointed and unbelieving when I told her about my work, but she thanked me for warning her anyway. Then she said that I should just come the following Saturday.

Ill carry on my story of my day 2 when I get home Just now.

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And that as they say is that.

impossible is a word used by the weak. i was in the same prediciment as you a few years ago, i completed stunned this hottie 9/10 who was selling behind a counter and of course i realized it was kino time - so you know what i did? i climbed up ontop of the counter and joined her in her area and kinoed her. not only did this show that i CARED FOR HER but i showed CONFIDENCE.

good luck dude on your future with women,, need any tips hit me up

Thank you for putting me straight The Man Himself.
I really could have and should have done something like that.

Well this last monday I had the day off after working overtime on the weekend, so I thought I would pay my cute little 7.5 a visit. My plan was to get her out of her stand and go for lunch at the cafe right next to it, where I could kino and try a couple games ond stories on her without the constant customers.

Anyway that didn't happen... she was not allowed to leave her stand for like 4 hours or something (Was probably an excuse).
Whatever, I told her I would like to play a game called the cube with her in order to help me fill in the blanks with my personality.(my first time trying the cube btw)
Well the game worked SUPER! and she was giggling and I was teasing her and chatting for the next like hour.

Then all of a sudden when I was trying to show preselection by talking about something my ex did that annoyed me. She told me something in return that her current bf does that annoys her.
I have read that the only reason a girl talks about her boyfriend in set is because you escalated too early.But I never even escalated!
I wonder where I went wrong...

Anyway, subconsciously my brain said "Exit Stage Left" as soon as I herd her say it, and before I realized it, I had excused myself to sort out my shopping...
I could kick myself.

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And that as they say is that.

Your first mistake was asking her to try on the necklace. You should have helped her put on the necklace......instant kino....

I really do like the idea of approaching girls who sell necklaces at a stand. I should try that some time. It's not so easy where I am cause there are none of those stands! But definitely want to try it out.

Also one thing I have also learned is NEVER ask a girl/person if they want to do something.

Example:

Case 1
You: "Do you want to meet me later around 3?
Girl: blah blah maybe or whatever......

or in your case at one point you said

Case 2
You: "How about I ask you a couple questions to see?"

What you should be saying is

Case 1
You: "Meet me at blah blah tomorrow at 3."

Case 2
You: "I am going to ask you a few questions and then we can establish that."


This is because when you ask a question or phrase something as a question (unless it is open ended) then you are leaving her a chance to reject your offer. When you set a specific time and place to meet without giving her the option of saying no you raise your chances and are portraying the alpha. Girls like guys who know what they want, especially since most are indecisive.


Good work though, tweak and refine and all shall be good.