Hello all a friend recommended me this forum for some advice, I am a college student and my final days of my first year i decide to go pick up some girls. You can say i am an ordinary guy and never really done any pickin up or flings. So I finally got a girl interested in my and even back to my place after some parties, of course we were both tipsy. We got there before my friends and other girls came back. I finally got her into my bed room. This was my first time doing this sort of thing, i am usually a relationship guy but since im in college why not. I got her into my room but i can tell it was awkward, i cant seem to close at all. I can't tell if she wanted to do anything, i did not know how to approach. She was definitely interested in me otherwise i wouldnt think she would come back with me and into my room. I hesitated to do anything and before i knew it my dick roommate who was not able to pick up any chics that night decide to barge in and CB me =\. I couldn't close at all that night and i want some tips on how to close when i have a girl in my bed room. My friends say just do and take it out but i feel like thats too ridiculous. any suggestion for next time? thanks.

edit: i think this should of been posted in the Closing forum, sorry!

Right next time, don't be afraid to make a mistake, take a chance and it'll probably work, if not you have lost nothing. Make a move on her, touch the girl, kino is important, it builds comfort and sexual tension. Touch sensitive areas, take the lead.

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Okay, I will take lead next time but say if she was just sitting on my bed should i just go up and kiss her and just start it from there?

If she's sitting on your bed, look for IOI's, her touching her hair etc.

Give her a little massage, rub her shoulders. As I said some kino, it can take you far my friend.

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okay thanks! ill deff look for some IOI next time... i guess ill just have to practice, ive been out of the game for too long. Her asking me if i have a gf was an IOI right?

Asking if you have a gf is definitely an IOI in my opinion, shows she is interested,don't be afraid to practice. Practice makes perfect!

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