Hey all

At the gym I go to there is a smoking hot woman who always goes to this one particular gym class and I've been dying to talk to her. When I am at the gym I usually do weights only but I'm willing to join the gym class because I see there may be opportunities to talk to her while we are waiting for the gym class to start. I would feel confidant approaching her if she is there by herself. However she usually brings her female friend with her to the the gym class and before class they are always chatting to her. I feel without a good opener she will just brush me off and go back to her friend.

Is there anything I can do to get and keep her attention? Any ideas for openers? Or is there a better time when I should approach such as when the class begins?

Any help would be appreciated. Thanks

I remember there is one good opener to use in the gym. You can say this to interrupr her when she is doing weight.

"hey stop doing that amount, you are making guys like me me looking weak." This can be used provided that you look fairly strong, or at least big. If you are small built and muscleless it can backfire as dlv.

Or just go direct. "Hi you look familiar/ new, how long have you been training here?" and so on.

Try for a situational opener. Ask about the class.

Tell them its your first time and you want to know how hard it is, or if you have an injury (I know I and everyone else I train with have at least one) ask if the class is harsh on your (wrist/foot/shoulder).

This gives a good opportunity to continue the conversation later. "That wasn't that hard, you girls are soft" or whatever.

Then if you have talked twice, next time you see her just talk about anything and go from there.

Do an opener on her friend instead and get her friend to like you before you approach her. You'll have social proof and it'll be easier to make her jealous

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