Man, this really is like seeing 100 books on picking-up women all posted in just 7 easy-to-read pages. Really, really like it. Thanks!

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A man must be big enough to admit his mistakes, smart enough to profit from them, and strong enough to correct them.

John C. Maxwell

Really good stuff!

Thanks

For sure the best thread I have read on this forum, you know what you're talking about buds

Sly, Thanks for taking the time to put this together man. It really is a great read and there are good intentions behind it rather than just filling the wallet with BS sales talk.

Thanks for this sly. truly the best thread I have read in any forum anywhere. Puts everything together so simply and really displays that pickup is all about just having fun. This is what pickup should be about its not really that complicated

I feel that being a PUA is a lot like being a guildsman. I know, I'm going to sound really nerdy here, but it's applicable. There were three stages of being an ancient guildsman. 1) Apprentice - learn the tools of the trade from a master, and hone your skills. 2) Journeyman - go out into the world to practice your skills in field; travel, and see where your journeys take you - a critical part in learning. 3) Master - you have learned your trade - take up apprentices and pass your craft on to others. It's almost like we, ourselves, are part of a PUA guild, and follow these three stages of mastering our craft.

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I don't like taking the easy way out. I'd rather be creative.

Btw Sly, thanks for posting this stuff. It's pure gold.

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I don't like taking the easy way out. I'd rather be creative.

This is amazing stuff Sly. Very to the point, clear and concise. I have read a few sarging books, but to be honest, although great material, most of those books could be condensed to 10 pages .. and what focus would really have the most impact .. as you have done very well. Keep up the good work and thanks for posting!

nicely put I second that

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Live Life in the Positive

dude primo stuff i love it thanks a ton

It's OK to be in the friend zone.

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Day 1: Rune reads Slywalker Day 1 focusedly. ;\
I like numbers.
And you are correct.
All girls are disposable.

Don't get feelings for one girl; remember girls are disposable.

Go out and have fun. Girls are disposable.

She doesn't matter, there are 1000s of other "shes".
Go out and have fun.

Girls are disposable.
She doens't matter. Just go outside, and look at random hotties.

Boom. Reality; girls are everywhere.
Girls are disposable.

Fish in the fuckin sea.
No.
I'd hope not; that's creepy.
Don't come in the front door; go through the back.
Don't go through the back door; go through the doggie door.
Don't go through the doggie door; the window at the side is open
The window's closed? Throw a rock and sneak in.
Thievery? WHY ARE YOU THINKING?!?!?!

...yeah, it makes sense.
Mean girls make me cry.
...and make my dick soft.

Rejection is either:
A)Not personal
B)Depending on answer, a sign of whether a girl is worth it or not.
Bitches...
All girls are indeed disposable; like needles, or tampons, or condoms.
The reason: Whether your single or married, the constant is YOU.
Girls are like buses.
Girls are like tampons
Girls are like needles.

Girls are disposable.

Don't get connected with girls; you'll die.
Girls are disposable.

51% of the population is FEMALE
90% of men are weak chodes with no cock.

Girls are disposable.

...got it.

Hi Slywalker,

wonderful thread. much thanks for sharing the knowledge.

On your recommendation, I have read the nlp book the new technology of achievement last week. I have few questions:
1. If any other, What other NLP book/s do you recommend? or do you think this one should be sufficient.
2. What do you recommend for increasing confidence (if NLP exercises which one or something else).. as I do need help in that area.
3. In the book new technology of achievement, there are many exercises, which of those did you find to be most helpful, as I am very keen on putting them into practice.

As in my case, a lot of girls time to time hit on me.. girls are giving me IOIs everyday and many times they initiate conversation with me but I have never been able to capitalise on them.. I just don't know what to do after having a short simple convo and it mostly always end there.

Many thanks!

Hi and thanks for the compliments.

1. "NLP - the new technology of achievement" was not written by Steve Andreas, it was edited by him and the material was collected from many different sources, it is basically a collection of the best NLP material available, Steve Andreas also edit the very ground breaking book "Frogs to princes" by Bandler and Grinder. If you read NLP - the new technology of achievement thoroughly and practice the techniques it should be all you need to become a proficient NLP user. However, any book you read from there on will be extra knowledge to your arsenal. Frogs to princes for example goes more in depth in how to understand how other people think and connecting with them faster, Derren Browns books contain tricks that can be used for showing off. The Big Book Of NLP Techniques by Shlomo Vaknin is something in between but extremely thorough.

2. Unfortunately I don't have my copy of "the new technology of achievement" in front of me at the moment, but the exercises where you think back of moments where you felt extremely confident and you remember the feelings, recreate them and apply them to the current situation are very effective, use those in combination with the exercises that helped you remove negative memories for best results!

3. Honestly, I loved all of the exercises, maybe my favorite part was the ones where you change your tonality and body language to mirror behavior and create rapport with people faster, I remember when I read those chapters I was sitting on a train and started practicing on all the other passengers around me, I discovered that I could get many different reactions just by changing slight things, and eventually I could control the situation well enough to get exactly the reactions I wanted.

4. As for when girls hit on you, if you don't feel ready to keep the around for a long conversation or an instant date just yet, then you can use my personal super safe number close method.
When the conversation starts, be quick to apply your NLP techniques for creating instant rapport.
Bring up an interesting topic, like debate something from the news or whatever, as long as it is relevant to her, stop her half way through the convo and say that you have to run but you would love to pick this up again sometime, how can we do that? she will be intrigued and give you her number.
Remember that everyone's favorite topic is themselves!

Also, never ask for a number, order her to give it to you! "So give me your number and we can pick this up soon"

Good luck!

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amazing thread.
i printed out all your articals from this thread. i feel they are valuable to keep and go though all over again and again in the future.

i have one simple question: do u think language & culture difference is the block for PU?

im moved to Canada 7 years ago from asia. i went to university in Canada and im working in Canada rite now. my english is good, but not as good as mother tongue.