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PostPosted: Fri May 21, 2010 9:38 am 
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Hey,

I've been good friends with this girl for about 2 years, we're very comfortable around each other, but I want to know how to get out of the friend zone!

Any advice?


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PostPosted: Fri May 21, 2010 10:11 am 
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a few things:
You don't give enough information and it's really reiiducles
If you just wanted to read a lot of information about the topic, use the search and read....
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PostPosted: Fri May 21, 2010 11:03 am 
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You get out of the friend zone by having sex with her. Then you might just be a friend with benefits. You'll ultimately have to marry her to make sure you're out.


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PostPosted: Sat May 22, 2010 9:56 am 
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a few things:
You don't give enough information and it's really reiiducles
If you just wanted to read a lot of information about the topic, use the search and read....
here's....
what-would-you-do-if-a-girl-did-this-to ... 67677.html
lol it's muh thread. But really OP, I think I learned a hard lesson about long time friends. I'm still trying to work through the aftermath of what happens. Long story short, my friend straight up told me that if she wanted to date in the future it would be painfully obvious (even after she made out with me).

Take that how you want.


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PostPosted: Sat May 22, 2010 12:42 pm 
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Yeah dude. Not much info above. Piece of advice, try to ask her so both of you can move on with your own lives. that is if your ready to risk the 2yrs of friendship. but also take in mind that if you don't do anything, someone else might.

"Winners make things happen, Losers let things happen."
Your Choice.

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PostPosted: Mon May 31, 2010 11:02 pm 
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Thanks for the advice guys! I've since decided to go out and try to game some other girls though, plenty more fish in the sea right? I'll keep my friendship with this girl.

Brilliant quote by the way Evo. I'll need to think about that :D


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PostPosted: Tue Jun 01, 2010 12:12 am 
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Alex. If you want to get with this girl I want you to do two things:

1.) Ask yourself, "How does her friendship benefit me more than her being my girl friend?" Meaning, what does she provide and bring to the table in your platonic relationship? Also I hate to say this because I come off as an asshole, but what about her social value? Is she well connected? Can you network through her?

2.) Ask yourself, "What to find attractive about this girl?" Really meditate on the idea and why you want to escalate your relationship with her to that of mates. Then do the complete opposite! Find all her flaws and what you don't like about her. A good example of this: (A girl I once knew, my friend, had me all into her one day and then I started to fall for her. Anyhow I asked myself why am I so into her? The other guy in me was, "she's socially awkward, and she doesn't give OR receive oral sex...etc..."
Find her flaws and ask yourself can you live with those flaws? Find and meet or know already girls that don't have these flaws that are the same caliber on sexual attraction as this girl and tell me what you think.

I can not tell how to get with her or sleep with her. All I can tell you is how to go about thinking about it and weighing your options. I just got into the game like 4 months ago and before then I would get friend zoned fucking hard by a lot of girls.

Honestly a lot of men say that once you are in that zone, it's impossible to get out. You can date her, but you will just end up breaking up. To have casual sex as friends I would just tell her you are attracted to her and kino her some.

Hope this wall of text helps you. :oops:


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