What's up guys. Here's a short history of me and this chick...
We were taking the same class at university. I got invited by her to hang out at her place and study a couple of weeks ago. It was fun (but there were a bunch of people there too so I couldn't kino/escalate but I think I was a lot of fun). Last week we were supposed to hang out with a bunch of people at the museum (for extra credit). I texted her where we should meet up. She tells me that everyone bailed and we're probably not going anymore.
She gets all whiny that she needs the extra credit so I get some balls and I'm like hey lets just go then. She texts me back that she's got plans now (probably bullshit).. I text her back "okay, you don't know what you're missing
gl on the exam" or some crap like that. She texts a bunch of people (myself included) a few hours later that they are studying at her place. I text her back 1 hr later that I can't come since I'm at a party (I actually wasn't but I wanted her to feel bad that she didn't hang out with me).
A few days later it's exam day. She asks me how the party was etc. I'm like it was fun, blah blah. A few minutes later I call her out (in front of our little peer group) and I say "how was all that imaginary stuff you had to do instead of hanging out with me?" She gets like really flustered (jokingly) and I was also semi-kidding. She mentions that her roommate got a flat screen TV and they were watching movies (maybe an IOI) instead of studying blah blah. Now, it's been 3 days since we last talked and I'm thinking about texting her something.
What complicates the situation is that I'm actually into her friend a lot more (and I never got the chance to get her number). I'm not sure
a)
what should I say since I would like to keep hanging out with her and her friends over the summer. (female friend abundance)
b)
how should I get her friend's number (I was kind of a pussy and never asked but she was constantly absent from class, but I think she maybe? likes me or at least finds me interesting)
Would it be rude to be like "so when am I getting invited over to check out your new TV?" or something like that?
Should I ask "hey can I get A, B, C, and D's number from class, I never got a chance to ask?" (one of the people being the chick I'm interested in)
Sorry if this is kind of an AFC question, truth be told, I've NEVER been in a situation like this before lol
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