Hi!

I f-closed that hb7-8 few months ago. Now I want to do it again with her and maybe more. I haven't seen her after that, but we have had many msn/sms conversations. She is showing some IOIs like initiating conversations, commenting my fb statuses etc.

Im not sure what she thinks of me, because I have tried to arrange meeting, but she always says that shes busy and giving some reason. If I ask when she is available, she says don't know, but wants to see and then quickly changes topic. What this means?

Another question is what it means that she says she is lonely sometimes and wants to have someone etc etc, but do not mention me in any way. Is this some kind of hint or does it mean friend zone?

BTW. I have had same kind of situations with other girls. Do you know any book/article, which covers that kind of issues? All i have read contains mainly "before f-close" things.

Take it as a hint man, arrange a meet asap, start kino'ing!

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I think you hit it on the head, it does sound like you're in the friend zone. She's lonely, she just doesn't want you. It's bad news if she avoids getting together with you and immediately changes subject. Sounds like she just wants a shoulder to cry on. Don't let her use you as an emotional sponge, if she starts whining about how bad her life is, change the subject or ignore her, you don't deserve to be dumped on. If you manage to get together with her, choose something that will feel like a date and treat it like a date, avoid friend activities and hanging out in groups.