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PostPosted: Tue Jul 01, 2008 4:03 pm 
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Actually I think this is a fantastic opener. It puts the women on the spot to come up with something original which you can then be playful about...

"You can do better than that!"

or you can pretend to take it too hard...

"I'm gonna go over there and cry... you guys are mean."

you can even transition this into talking about how most guys are afraid of approaching women, a topic we all know quite a bit about.

Not only is this a fun exercise, but it's actually a great opener that gives us plenty to work off of to extend the conversation.

I am going to field test this next time I head out sarging.
I am using this as an opener. It goes with cocky/funny quite well in the responses that can be given.
It was field tested and was successful!


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PostPosted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 12:06 am 
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i tried this week back, you could say that it was really the first time i went out to do anything that could be count as sarging. so, there i was at the club with just this, 3s rule and confidence as my tools. i went from HB8-10 to another, went through totally about 15-25 girls, mostly 2-3 sets but some 5+. i was really amazed about the result; i noticed three things:

a) 95% of women CANT be mean if they're asked to
b) this was helluva conversation opener
c) apparently, against my whole attitude, im not that AFC looking that i thought.

only one girl was able to be mean at me and she went sooo overboard that i couldnt really care less. she just made mean things up that clearly didnt have anything to do with me. i was really surprised how many girls just engaged to conversation after this line, considering that my plan was to engage, toss the line, listen the answer and vanish. ultimately, what really boosted my usually-so-low self-esteem was c. seriously, i heard line "ur gorgeous" about ten times at that night. this is more than all the times on my previous life count together. and as cherry on top, this one girl, who was my friend's friend's friend, had tagged along the whole night. i'd been gaming her with just my left hand, i mean i was just chitchatting and stuff, running around talking with other girls n stuff and still at the end of the night she tried to score me. 8,5 for the whole package, i decided what the hell and went for it.

so, to sum it up:
first night at sarging, resulting:
-loads of confidence
-more contacts with HBs in one night than ever
-first legit f-close ever

i dont really know if that night made me any better sarger but hell, if thats the potential of being PUA, i wanna learn it, no matter what. this opened my eyes, once and for all, and theres no going back.


there are typos but who gives a crap. im drunk anyways, peace.


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PostPosted: Wed Jul 09, 2008 12:04 am 
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has anyone tried
hi you look like someone i should get to know better?


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PostPosted: Wed Jul 09, 2008 11:36 am 
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has anyone tried
hi you look like someone i should get to know better?
i'd say that the line itself is pretty average and works only if you can pull it off with style[/list]


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This would be great for a two set.
After your girl goes through her rejection, make some c&f comment, "oh come on, you can do better than that," "Hmm. I was expecting a little more from you... etc."
Then turn to the girl standing next to her and just be like: "You look like the bad girl of the group, I'm sure you can do better," or something along those lines.

If you play them off one another, you could keep this one going for a good while. If they are really getting engaged, you can even push it further by, after they've both "rejected you," being like:
"Ok, I've got a beer gut, I'm partially bald, and I have chest hair sticking out of my sleeves. Come on.

Good SH*IT

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PostPosted: Fri May 21, 2010 1:46 am 
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what if she says:
why are you asking me this?

how should i reply?


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Reply with "Seriously, that's all you got?"


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I once had a shit load of laxatives and just walked around a club farting whenever I engaged an HB to get over my fear of rejection.

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I like your style on this one, but I do agree with the fact she could reject you rather easily by just turning around and shutting you out.

I have tried something slightly similar by asking a girl how she would react to me with different cheesy chat up lines. It worked pretty well, but I was crap, didnt know how to esculate and she lost interest in the drawn out conversation.


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Haha this actually sounds really good. Aslong as someone said before your not creepy when doing it.

I can imagine its a case of go over, drop the line, get a response, laugh and leave. I have issues with AA since I've been out the game for awhile. So I think this is a great exercise just to build up approach confidence. #1: They reject you and be mean (which is what you went over for anyway). #2: They find it funny, you gain a surge of confidence.

I mean from my previous exp with women, if it actually impressed them and you suddenly leave, there thinking "wow, whys he gone? that was pretty funny" etc etc


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PostPosted: Sun May 23, 2010 9:41 pm 
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WOW! im amazed with this oppener, i think it will be even better if we use a false time constraint to aboid the "im hanging arround u guys for too long, so im needy" part. Something like:

"Hey guys, no going to take too long cause my friends are waiting, but i want to ask you for a weird favor..."

When response comes back C&F them like there is no tomorrow about "how lame those rejections sounded like" or "buh buh! im going to cry cause u girls are bad, really bad!".

So after craking them up and making them feel confortable, repeating phisical false time constraint, time to lock in ( I love locking, its a awesome preselection-switch activator, also creating a hudge DHV to the rest of the room, thanks a lot Mystery :D ), build some attraction and escalate with group or target.

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I tried this last night on two women, and they looked like real snobs but one of the girls loved it, I was able to drop the line, then sit with them, her friend didnt seem too impressed so I negged her and continued a convo with the original, and then I got up and left before it became awkward or I felt asif I was out staying my welcome.

Great little open, especially when she said "so is this your line"


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hahah that def sounds funny


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hahah love it


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yea this shit is genius.. definitely an opener. However, I'm having trouble transitioning into a topic of conversation that doesn't make it seem like I'm hanging around too long after using this.
Are you setting up a time constraint?


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