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Hey Adam
Im in college. Im a second semester Junior and I'm in a fraternity that throws crazy parties. I'm social, funny, and I love to party. I go out atleast twice a week. I know this sounds like a online dating profile but the reason why I'm saying this is because I constantly here everyone say college game is so much easier than real word game. Now I am doing pretty good but I'm tired of that I wanna do great... really great. I want to look back when I am in the real world doing cold approach which sucks btw compared to this and say " atleast college was insane."
I took your bootcamp and because of it I am now over approach anxiety and could really care less about rejection/ There is just one thing I really do care about and thats my reputation/ In college just like all closed off societies such as school, work and chruch your reputation is everything. I never wanna be known as that creepy guys who hits on every girl or the that guy that walks up to everyone to make forced conversation. Now mabe I could do this myself but by the time I have figured it all out college may be over. Your the number one pickup artist in the world and your bootcamp was one of the best investments Ive ever made so I'm gonna ask you how do I become "that guy." Now lets say I'm in class or walking around Is it wierd of me to strike of a conversation then use a justification to get a number on a mass scale ( by this I mean 10+ approaches a day) I go to a school of about 12000 and my biggets thing is just that if I apprach to many woman or appraoch a girl in a manner not usually seen, such as a girl sitting and studying, Ill get a reputation as the guy that appraches tons of woman which could be seen as creepy mabe or is this all in my head? I have all the tools good lifestyle, decently high social proof, a good understanding of the game, but I just dotn know how to implement them on a mass scale so I need your help.
Also once I get there how do I keep contact with all those pple cuz rite now Im having trouble keeping in contact with 4 or 5 girls?
I know this is quite the question and I know I am asking a lot but I figured if anyone would know how to get this done you would.
O and if your rlly feeling generous could you break down ( not just for me but for anyone who ever reads this post) Exactly what makes a guy creepy in a girls eyes other than the obvious? As in how far can you go before its creepy suchh as wait around to talk to her if shes on the phone or go across teh room to talk during the day.
Stephen
New York Bootcamp
Hey SAF12
Great to hear that you have kept up the practice since the bootcamp. The best way to continue practicing without coming off as a creep is to keep it as casual as you can.
For example, you can open with “Hey, I see you're carrying an O-Chem book... Is that class really as hard as everyone says?” “Hey, are you in my Social Media class?” “Oh nooo, they ran out of sausage pizza. That's my fave!” Basically anything that is casual and not too direct will work. Then follow it up with where they live (on or off campus), what their major is, and where they party or what bars they go to. Lastly, closing by saying you have a great party or event they have to attend or saying you need help with homework or notes from the class you missed is the best way to not get labeled as a player. And yes, you can do this with 10+ approaches a day, just make sure that you're not doing it in front of the same people or the same girls and it should be fine.
Keep in contact with mass texts to start and then start personalizing them as the responses come in.
Lastly, there are a thousand things to do to be creepy. The general rule of thumb for all situations is to not hover around her or the group and don't creep up before the approach.
CHAT
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