So my ex left me almost a year ago, we dated for almost 5 years and we separated on good terms. What are some of the best ways to game your ex when she's in a current relationship with a guy you and everyone else knows is a total p.o.s. with hopes of her realizing she made a mistake and ultimately getting them to split.

Just DHV yourself, act busy, let her think what your up to, trying to make her split with him will probably make them stronger.

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Overall it's just a bad idea. Sounds like oneitis. The community teaches that you should move on, and remember the abundance mentality. Couldn't you get a better girl?

I know I can but the thing with this girl that makes me still want her is that when she broke up with me she never really gave me a full reason, she also did it in a text message. I guess this is one of those closure things i need to get a hold of for me to really move on ya know.

yeah complete closure is something we have to grapple with all the time. relationships weave so complex a web that it is difficult to understand what is what and what is over.

and i want to know, are you gaming this girl out of a relationship because she is with a douche? or because you want her oh so bad?

Anchor her. Expose her to things that subconsciously remind her of positive feelings she had in your relationship. Have secks with other girls, it will make getting her back much easier. And finally, this sounds like oneitis so you should probably learn to move on. Break-ups can be hard especially if you don't get closure, but learning how to deal with them can make huge differences in your mentality and get you much closer to becoming Alpha. If you can't get over this girl, your just embracing a beta male mentality.

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DON'T GET BACK WITH YOUR EX.

SHE WILL NOT TREAT YOU WELL. AND YOU WILL BE EVEN MORE DEPRESSED THAN YOU ALREADY ARE ABOUT IT!

Moving on is terribly difficult. especially if you are situationally forced to see her from time to time.. Difficult but still necessary.

It doesn't matter if she gave you a reason or not, closure or not, she still broke it off.. that is irrelevant to her being worthy of getting the pleasure of your company, and she doesn't deserve it.

especially with how shitty she broke it off, why would you EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER trust her EVER again???

trying to get your ex back who treated you terribly is very low value behavior.. And I KNOW you are not low value.

we've talked about this.
You guys dated for so long, it's NOT a good idea to go down this road.

"Motherfucker has to PAY for the pleasure of my company!"
~Daniel Day Lewis in "Gangs of New York"

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