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PostPosted: Wed May 19, 2010 1:09 pm 
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Hey guys I'm new here.. I'm currently reading "the game". I'm in so need of help about my problems on this chick I like. I hope you guys can help me from this AFC state. :)


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PostPosted: Wed May 19, 2010 3:32 pm 
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Mate I feel for you, Ive been in the same position, and probably still am a little bit.

The only real thing you can do is keep yourself busy, maybe take yourself out of the game for a while. Focus on doing stuff which makes you feel good about yourself. Maybe pick up the gym if you dont already, see more of your mates etc... If you keep your mind focussed on something else you will eventually stop thinking about her like that. Then your re-entry into the game will come naturally without you having to think about it. You'll come back refreshed and positive and chicks dig that shit!

Good luck.

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PostPosted: Wed May 19, 2010 6:56 pm 
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The thing is I was about to make a move to this girl I like, but my friend here who saw my target once made moves to her first at their second encounter.. Me and my guy friend here didn't know we were hitting on the same girl. Until the girl told me that she was with him and I got suspicious and confronted him (my friend). I don't know how it happened, but it's like one day I wake up and I'm here.. having a so called "healthy competition" with him.. losing... Since I was late to make my moves I need to pace up.. But now he's leading this game so much that I'm losing hope. And since this girl and I happen to indulge in a project, we became good friends. I'm afraid that I'll be at the LJBF zone soon (If not there already).. I want to save myself! the Problem is HOW? I didn't intended to like that girl from the start so I wasn't able to save myself and go under the radar. Now I think this girl I like has her defenses up because I messed up...

Stinks to be an AFC or an RAFC.... I really want that girl...

I need a mentor.. someone who would teach me and save me from this hell.


Yeah.. It's all I do.. Keeping myself busy.. I keep improving myself since I think I have what it takes.

All my experiences with girls was just from my personality alone.. though I still fail at it sometimes (dunno why). I'm an average guy with average looks. But the thing is I'm to skinny.. and that's a bit of a downer. I keep busy by improving myself from my flaws right now. I want to prove I deserve better..

I may have really fallen inlove which I don't want.. and I hate this feeling I get when I'm reminded that my friend has the upper hand.. and since he's a dear old guy friend I don't want to cause any problems... I'm too damn confused

Plain and simple I don't what to do :cry:


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PostPosted: Thu May 20, 2010 10:00 pm 
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Yeah, I understand what you mean man. Many times have I been through that, before I read The Game though.. Its all about confidence, this girl sees your pal as more of a catch like he is settling for her, just ignore her for a bit, go for her mate maybe but act cool about it.. like you dont like anyone of them an she will try a bit.. Dont worry about your appearance if your that bothered set a target of 50 press ups in 60 seconds might take you a week or two but if you can do that everyday you will tone up your shoulders an chest.. maybe buy a book on weight training with or without actual weights..there is things like going to a park an doing pull ups on the swings, just if your limited on cash etc.. Thats if your that bothered about appearance.. but being a bit muscly helps but not all girls are into that.. Dont forget where all family in the PUA society, just some are distant cousins and some are brothers you havent quite met yet.. Im not much of a PUA but ill help you as much as I can bro.. Message me

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PostPosted: Thu May 20, 2010 11:38 pm 
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If I've learned something through all my interactions with the "female" creature is that they are as scared as you are. They push the limit as much as we do. THEY LIKE SEX AS MUCH AS WE DO.

What do you think the discussion over a late between 2 girls would be? POKEMONS? I srsly doubt it. It will always be men. I am 99% sure of this! The rest 1% is about what new clothes she bought.

Ok, so listen up m8, I know very well that at this age everybody's cheating. And when I say everybody, i mean YOU, YOUR GIRLFRIEND, HER FRIEND, YOUR FRIEND'S GF, YOUR FRIEND, YOU, absolutely everybody. What's my point? Well... if your game's solid it doesn't matter if she's with a drug king pin... (ok maybe just a bit :)) cuz u can end up dead) but as long as you play your game good she will chose you over her current boyfriend ALWAYS! Hell.... keep in mind this: you will always cheat on your girlfriend and she will always cheat you! Girls are players they do shit tests on you to see if they get DLV (Demonstration of Lower Value) out of you, and when they do they will shit on your face. Never tell a girl you love her btw! Once you do that not only that she'll be turned off cuz she obtained what she wanted but you'd probably end up alone again after 3 days.

There are always many fish in the sea! TRY AND TRY AND TRY AND than fail, fail, fail! PRACTICE is number one key!

If you try once you'll be one step closer to be a PUA, if you don't you'll be a 40 year old virgin! Confront your demons m8! I needed 10 try's to finally get a GF.

I am so ashamed of my noob state that I laugh at myself for what I was. I was all like "hey you wanna be my GF" =))) and i always got the same "naah, lets just be friends" after 3 try's i finally understood that that's wrong! I started dating again, it took me 2 dates to understand how and when's the moment to KINO, it took me 5 dates to know that the kiss is not always when you say goodbye to her! You may kiss her as soon you have enough kino escalation and IOI's. If you let the moment seize she gets turned off and than there's no way getting a KClose at the bus station if you didn't get one when she was in your lap and your hands were @ her boobs... She sees you as a fool if you let her turned off.

Mate in my opinion let things chill a bit (i'd say 3 days), meaning not talking to her, if you got her YM Mess ID or anything start a conversation with her like "hey how you doin' :*?" but don't be long in talking to her cuz than you'll be in LJBF too much. DON'T EVER LISTEN TO HER PROBLEMS! tIf you do this than you are in LJBF. When you sense LJBF, abandon target. After I end up dating a target I BARELY SPEAK TO THEM because I have no interest.
-> Never let her bring a friend on a date. If she says that you say: "I want to see you only, not your friend, if you want to see your friend than go I'll go see my friends too and we'll go out another time" or "I only invited you, you can either choose me, or your friend" Its worth the risk, trust me.
-> When you want to establish a date with her, don't ask her:"Are you available Sunday night?". Talk to her like this:"Ok, be in front of X Cafe at 5 PM I'll come and pick you up" "where're we going?" "oh you'll see :>" result we'll be laughter and than she will eventually say yes if you play'd your game well.

Don't think your actions ahead. The moment is your brain. When you are on a date with her, just find a NEG spontaneously about her hair, her face, her anything. Say something like:"wow your haircut really let me down, let me find a paper bag for you" and than when you walk with her through the park say again a neg like "I don't like it...." she:"what?" "everybody keeps staring at your hair :|.. it looks like a nest of birds" and than laugh.

NEVER take back a NEG, only if its from a scale from 0 to 10 a 11!

You've established a date, you pick her up when you meet her and kiss her on the cheek and after all the "what's up shit" she will ask you where will you go. Ok so at this point you have to say "follow me" keep her in suspense with the usual "you'll see" and when you tell her to follow put your palm on her back, not around her neck, not around her waist but just at the level of the underarm. Why this specific location? too high= LJBF, too low= she'll think you only want to fuck her.

while you are walking to the selected destination: I strongly suggest parks, and small Cafe's where the music is not loud. I'll start with parks cuz i do best there. While you are walking around the park keep her interested, talk about some crazy shit you did in the past, on my last date (last week) i was talking to this one about drugs and we ended up making fun of shakespeare for being a pot head and, Van Gogh for painting what he was seeing when he was high, and all kinds of fun imaginative things. Unfortunately for knowing her for so much I couldn't do much and still didn't managed to do anything until now. I feel pity for me :)). I'm giving it a last stand this weekend and if i won't KClose I'd disappear from her life.
Back to what I was talking, ok so while you are walking around, Demonstrate Higher Value, Demonstrate uniqueness, ask her to do the same. DON'T GO LIKE "THESE ARE MY DHV'S NOW TELL ME UR DHV's (///.-)". ask her "what makes you different from the rest except your looks? what skills do you have?" bla bla, make fun of her skills, make fun of her appearence. After getting IOI's, NEGing her and DHV, settle down and start building KINO. I forgot to tell this early in the text but when you meet her and tell her "follow me" with you and on the back, go in front of her, than turn your head over your shoulder than show her your arm so that she gets a grab to it.

Kino escalation: back-> hand-> leg-> palm reading-> tell her she has something on her face, get it off and tell her its a bug, than after enough IOI's kiss her.
DONE!

Hope this helps! toked me 30 mins to write it :|. SHARE WHAT U LEARNED!
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PostPosted: Fri May 21, 2010 12:12 am 
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Yeah I know what it feels like to get Oneitis.

I'm on my 5th one this week. :cry:


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Yeah I know what it feels like to get Oneitis.
What does Oneitis mean?

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PostPosted: Fri May 21, 2010 2:43 am 
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Yeah I know what it feels like to get Oneitis.
What does Oneitis mean?
It's a disease AFCs get: They become obsessed with a girl they're neither dating nor sleeping with, and then start acting so needy and nervous around her that they end up driving her away.



I'm still AFC lol


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Ah lawl, had those but even now that I'm obsessed with this one, I'm acting rly chill @ her

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