| 1. Ease up!, She has vocal cords to! And has been known to speak occasionally, let that happen.
2. Seeing Eye to Eye. Get in the habbit of looking EVERYONE in the eye, when you meet them or first see them. Every day look and remember Three eye colours of the people you saw.
3. Mirror Mirror on the wall. Mirror her body language if you want some more rapport.
4. Don't be that guy. As a comedian myself I can tell you their is only one thing worse than a bad comic, and that's a bad comic who laughs nervously at his own jokes making everyone else feel awkward. There is NO NEED to constantly smile and laugh. It shows a lack of confidence and approval seeking behaviour.
5. HAPPY HAPPY JOY JOY! Sounds contradictory but frankly being approached by someone who is completely neutral is intimidating and does not open conversation well. Show positivity and welcome people with you facial expression, body language and voice.
6. Slooooowwww Doooowwwwnnnn. Both in set and out of set, linger at the table when you eat. Leave early so you can stroll to work rather than power stride it in their with a minute to spare. Reduces stress levels.
7. LOUD AND CLEAR! Shows confidence and it means people can actually hear you. Some of you people will go out and others will listen to you, giggle at what you say or smile politely, even though they have no idea what you have just said.
8. Take a break Sometimes the girls attention will shift off of you, this is not a disaster, infact often it's good, as it breaks up your conversation.
9. Amogging Just ignore them if you can, simple as, don't make eye contact, don't smile at them, just ignore them completely when you can if they are going to be dicks.
10. Don't cry Do not react negatively to other people in set. Get upset at a Bitch shiled and you have just lost.
11. Ploughing the pussy. Through Bitch shields and shit tests. Just keep rolling when you can.
12. Don't reveal everything! Get too deep emotionally and personally too fast and it just comes off as needy and over-whelming.
13. Check yourself! Posture, keep up straight or relax casually, but dont slouch and keep those eye's away from the ground!
14. I love it when we fight. Disagreements are great, it shows her you are an individual with your own opinions and you are not going to melt like a spineless wimp when confronted with an opposing view. Also can give tension. Which is one word away from something which is extra fun!
15. Learn to let go. Identify when a girl is not worth it and be willing to leave it if it is not productive... it will save you SOOOOOO much time.
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