Bunch of recent thoughts.

Baseless Assumptions.

"Girls love it when..." "Girls like..." "Girls are always saying"

Cannot stand this thinking; it's so pointless and misguided. It reminds me of an experiment on superstition.

A team are supplied a variety of objects and are told that if the score hits a certain number they will be each given a cash prize.

Soon the participants start messing with the objects trying to figure out how to get the score to climb, and now and again the score goes up. Within a relatively short time frame the participants have adopted various ritualistic behaviours in an attempt to influence the score.

The trick being, the score counter is absolutly random. They had no control what so ever over what the score would be and when it would go up.

Yet every participant when questioned was absolutly convinced that the beliefs they had formed about "the rules of the game" was correct, and was certain that their rituals and practises were proven to work.

This was an extension on the origonal experiment performed on pigeons to examine how we can form beliefs and superstitions and be tottaly convinced of them when they have zero basis in reality.

People are doing the exact same with women. Oh well women don't like hair like that they like..... Women don't like sports like... they prefer..... A Girl would never think..... they would probably think more.....

All of these are just baseless assumptions that have come from assuming that women are in some way tottaly different to men. Some of these "girls like..." statements do hold a grain of truth in them, and most of the time these things are more to do with peoples gender and the social norms which they may conform to rather than inherint traits to do with the sex.

This leads to some very stupid thinking, pointless assumptions which just cloud your perspective of what's actually going on.

I was always found it fucking hilarious when Pick up teachers have a girl in front of the group and end up discussing her like a biological study of a new species.

Truth is the social and personal differences between males and females are alot smaller than most people think. (community included)

When it comes to social norms/habbits and personalities it's worth bearing in mind that they are similar to you and your friends, and assume so until cold reading or conversation proves otherwise.


Warfare in Love.

We have a population of 7.5 billion roughly, and that's growing exponentially, fact is we are staring down the barrel of a malthusian population crash. (A situation where population grows to the point where we end up having wars over land and basic resources such as food and shelter.

And if this doesn't happen our pollution will affect the enviroment making large area's of the world inhabitable. (This has happened before with bacteria)

This is precisely why war is good, becuase there simply is not enough for us all to have our share. It's why I personally believe that "organised evil" is the founding of a strong society.

If you want to have, you will at some point have to take. Some people will dislike you, and you will form enemies. This is good, it shows that the people competing with you are threated by you, and it is a confirmation of your strength as an individual over them.

Do not fear other peoples hatred. Relish war as an opportunity to grow and aqquire.

The Ego.

If there is anything we have learnt through evolutionary theory it is that we are being of a long lineage and only partly human. I don't see any reason that we can ever fully transcend the human condition. Spiritual thoughts, do not remove biological conditions.

This isn't a problem however; as the human condition isn't a singular thing. It's more a mixing pot of a persons different identities. The goal to transcend the ego should not be to overcome it. But to avoid it.

Nice post Fin, props man!

When we learn new behaviours and we change our personalities our brains will mold. But it's elasticity, it will only ever go so far.

The problem with the human species and it's want. Is that it's brain has been created and formed during times where we need more. And aqquiring more was in your interest (it arguably still is). So our impulse is more, and that's hardwired in there. It's why we have more obese that anorexics.

And what would happen regardless if we destroyed our ego?

No sense of self.... no confidence.

No desire.... no motivation.

For someone chasing some sort of enlightenment, that's great! But for anyone of us, who isn't as concerned with escaping to nirvana.

Kasabi used to lambast alot of people for talking about rather buddhist principles, becuase he is very right when he says that someone who was honestly seeking zen would have nothing to do with PU.

The number one way to motivate someone to sarge has nothing to with ego. It's actually making them way up the positives and negatives.

People are truly motivated when working in their own interest.

Rape Sarging.

When someone uses tricks and manuevers to force a girl to continue having sex with him, we call this rape.

Many sargers have similar mindset; they believe that if a woman was to know she was being seduced she would reject him, they believe that women do things to STOP themselves being seduced (shit tests).

So alot of their game circles around deliberate mis-direction and trickery. Now when they actually get something going, it's not what they think, usually the girl knows what's up from "Hi" and he hasn't fooled anyone. But he believes he has.

Even if you don't think that sounds weak enough, if the girl was actually being decieved and tricked, then this would be very easily classified as rape.

The thing is, she's not fooled by you, she never really was. She may have been confused by your behaviour at times, but generally speaking she knew what your intentions were.

Sex is two people working together to have a great time; rape is one person trying to force the other so that they can indulge selfishly in a pleasurable experience.

Sarging is just like sex in that way.