ok so yesterday, i was at the club and dancing close with this HB8.5 after some initial fluff talk that i thought went well. she is enjoying the dancing, and says she's drunk. she does not smell of alcohol at all, giving me the impression that she needs an excuse for herself to justify the close dancing, or she is looking for an SNL. figured i'll go with the SNL theory just to improve my callibration.

after about 5 songs, she looks deeply in my eyes and stops. she looks turned on at this point. she says she is carrying her friend's purse and needs to give it to her. to me that is a possible signal she wants to come home with me. i just smile and wait with her for her friend who is still dancing. eventually she stops the friend, who was also dancing close with another dude. the friend lets the dude go.

she and her friend talk for a bit, almost looks like an argument. this continues for a minute. at that point, both get serious. moments later, she comes over to me and mentions they are going downstairs (the club has 3 levels).

i am surprised, but try to keep my cool. i ask her to give me her number and handed over my phone. she enters it, then calls her phone, probably a good sign as now she has my number too. she says we are going to meet again, repeats her name and asks mine.

i figure if i stick along and offer to go downstairs with them, i'll look needy so i let them go. but fuck, i thought i was so close to taking her home.

what could i have done differently to get the SNL? should i have pushed for her to come with me instead? also, how long should i wait to contact her? i am thinking of sending her a text later today just saying that i wanted to make sure i got her name right, and i shall call her on monday or something. what do you guys think?

You shouldve moved to a different location. Why did she want to leave you?!? Maybe she was bored with you. Did you kino escalate???

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She does not go to clubs much and wanted to be close to where her friend is. I suggested a move initially and she was sort of unsure. I did not want to make her uncomfortable so I didn't push it later.

I believe she was not bored with me, she had her arms around me and was all over me. Dude, I kino-d big-time and she was kino-ing me back, she looked turned on.

I think she pissed off the friend as she stopped her dance and the guy she was dancing with took off. And after they talked, both looked pissed.

Hmm... That's so odd. They were both pissed, so they just decided to move to a different part of the club?

I would have said that maybe she was just nervous because it was her first time clubbing. (because she wouldn't leave with you). But I don't know why they'd just move to a different room.

Just call her up tonight man. Don't get sad IF she doesn't remember you.

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thanks for the input bro, i think you are right on, she was hesitant and nervous.
she really does not look like someone who goes to clubs a lot.

haha, know what you mean about the girl not remembering...

i texted her yesterday and she just texted me back. will call her soon.

Update: called her today, she picked up.
some fluff talk, then set date for sunday.